[bella07]

I am 18. I have never been in a serious relationship before. I have been on many dates and met so many decent guys but when I'm with them too long, my mind wanders and I feel bored, restless and confused. So many girls my age are in serious relationships, yet I can't bring myself to commit to even one! And as expected those guys lose interest because i always tell them i'm not ready. Another problem is I'm interested in a guy i know yet we do not see each other enough to build a stonger relationship. But that's a whole different story on its own. Am I just going on useless dates to fill that void or perhaps i'm still on the that lookout for the 'perfect guy'. I don't know.

my bf is the best. i told him that i didn't want to work anymore - just stay home with the kids and do online university stuff - and he gave me a nice smoooochie and said 'hey, i like that idea too' - i'll come home for quickies at lunch - wink

[IpAncA]

Sounds like your waiting for this guy you have an eye on.

[blind_otter]

You are only 18! Worry about this in 10 years.

[Curmudgeon]

That's good. At 18 you shouldn't commit. There are a whole bunch of people out there still to meet and a lot of life experiences you've yet to have so don't push yourself.

[HeyYouGuys]

Why should you be committed at 18? You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't worry about it.

As for the guy you like, it's a shame you don't seem to have a chance to get to know him better....but that's life sometimes. You will meet someone along the way who makes you feel that special sparkle. Give it time.

[alphamale]

Originally Posted by blind_otter

You are only 18! Worry about this in 10 years.

agreed....i would also add that anyone under 25 shouldn't be in a serious relationship anyways. there's too much other stuff to worry about like college and starting your career. and plus most young people are to immature to be in any serious "relationship". if they are casual that is fine, but not serious.