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Old 25th October 2006, 6:36 PM   #1
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My boyfriend leads me on

I need advice so someone outthere please help me. My boyfriend and I got into this mess where we cant be together till im 18, but he told me he loved me and i am the only one for him. He also said he was going to wait for me. Now his ex girlfriend has been going to his house and they have been hooking up. Its killing me because i want to move on but i also feel like he is the only one for me. He knows that i know about them and he acts like he cares on the phone but when it comes down to it he has time to talk to and spend time with her, i feel like he just uses me as a security blanket, but he still tells me he loves me and is going to wait for me. Yet he keeps hooking up with her and sometimes it makes me want to kill my self. I even try to go out and do my own thing to but i cant all i do is think about him and what their doing together.
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Old 25th October 2006, 7:40 PM   #2
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I think you should stop contacting him for a while, and if he really means what he says he will try his best to get back with you. It is wrong of him to find his ex and........... well maybe you should just forget about him for a while.. keep yourself busy, talk to friends, and all that jazz.. but dont let him do this to you no more.. if oyu are at the point of wanting to kill yourself.. it's best just to let go.... you have us on LS to give you advice.. and read some other stories on LS to help you see some other points of views.. hope this helps

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Old 25th October 2006, 8:28 PM   #3
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So having meaningless sex with his ex counts as "waiting for you"?

Nope. Forget this guy. He's not worth your time, energy, and emotions.
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Old 26th October 2006, 4:44 AM   #4
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So having meaningless sex with his ex counts as "waiting for you"?

Nope. Forget this guy. He's not worth your time, energy, and emotions.
TOTALLY. IF THERE EVER WAS A CUT AND DRIED CASE - THIS ONE IS A NO BRAINER. THE TOAST IS BURNT - TIME TO MOVE ON.
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Old 9th November 2006, 2:40 PM   #5
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I just want to thank those of you who gave your thoughts on my situation. I also wanted to let you know i am a registerd user now my name luvbug07, so holla at me. Im going to post more things that are happining with me and him.
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