A threesome with two men

ely · 13th October 2006, 2:36 PM

Hello this is directed to all women. Would you have a threesome with two men? I say this because every mans dream is to have two women at once, but do we fantasize with two men?

blind_otter · 13th October 2006, 2:37 PM

I don't. Maybe because I've heard a few males in my circle of acquaintence make reference to "running a **** train" on a chick.

hotgurl · 13th October 2006, 2:43 PM

I have it was so hot. I really loved it!

2sunny · 13th October 2006, 2:49 PM

been there - done that - in my younger years of course...

generally speaking - if one man is GOOD or GREAT - that should be enough for any gal....

everlong · 13th October 2006, 2:57 PM

i heard that one as well...that the male fantasy involving a 3some would be FFM. i guess i am in the minority. first of all, i would never be able to do something like that [so not a multitasker] but if my partner wanted to try a MMF, i would say, go ahead - enjoy. and change the lock on the door. seriously, i think that before someone jumps right into such an arrangement, that they try other ways of finding out whether something like that would ok with them. if u are in a relationship, communicate these desires, and have no expectations. if you are single, do yer homework. and in the event you, or you and your partner decide to try that, be prepared for it to impact your relationship. i don't think many people are secure enuff or trust enuff to be able to do that. think about your feelings afterwards, and not the carnal desires first - and chances are you will keep that 'fantasy' - just that - a fantasy.
plus, a 3some could be just 3 women. the thought of 3 men is kinda...well, u know [lol] [not homophobic, just, well....nevermind] lol

blind_otter · 13th October 2006, 2:59 PM

IME (I've only had ffm threesomes) the threesome only works out if you're not involved romantically with any of the other parties.

laRubiaBonita · 13th October 2006, 3:01 PM

i have had a 4-some with 3 dudes..... it was fun, but one is all i need!

everlong · 13th October 2006, 4:00 PM

i guess the only thing that makes me curious about a 3some is understanding a woman's thoughts, desires, reactions to one...i known two friends that have done that...they both did so only once, and wouldn't do it again...not that it was bad or good...just that they wanted to experience it...the thing i noticed was that doing so...didn't 'add' or 'benefit' them in a positive way and both seen to have had problems dealing with the fact that the did the deed. not everyone is as adventurous as they think they are.

CrushedOrgans · 13th October 2006, 4:02 PM

i've had both kinds of threesomes.

i love my men, but it was better with an extra girl rather than an extra guy honestly.

ely · 13th October 2006, 4:03 PM

I experienced it not so long ago and It was alot of fun, yes I will do it again.

everlong · 13th October 2006, 4:06 PM

i know two friends that have done that...they both did so only once, and wouldn't do it again...not that it was bad or good...just that they wanted to experience it...the thing i noticed was that doing so...didn't 'add' or 'benefit' them in a positive way and both seen to have had problems dealing with the fact that the did the deed. not everyone is as adventurous as they think they are.
i was dating someone many years ago, and a female friend thought my gf was very sexy and asked me to ask her if she would do that...i said, excuse me! do i not get a say in this! anyway, what it was really about was her wanting to be with my gf, and i could 'tag' along for the ride! lol. so, what happened was i told her if she wanted to do something like that...talk to the gf....then she could talk with me...and then everyone could make up their own mind...i actually found it flattering that another female lusted over someone i was dating - i thought 'yah, man, she's hot! i know! wooo hoo'

laRubiaBonita · 13th October 2006, 4:08 PM

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Originally Posted by everlong

i guess the only thing that makes me curious about a 3some is understanding a woman's thoughts, desires, reactions to one...i known two friends that have done that...they both did so only once, and wouldn't do it again...not that it was bad or good...just that they wanted to experience it...the thing i noticed was that doing so...didn't 'add' or 'benefit' them in a positive way and both seen to have had problems dealing with the fact that the did the deed. not everyone is as adventurous as they think they are.

i am just a one-on-one(

) type of person.

i know the success or failure greatly depends on your group, how well you know each others likes, dislike, each other really.....

but each of us is different and we like and dislike different things.

hotgurl · 13th October 2006, 4:09 PM

I would do it again if I wasn't in a relationship. threesomes wreak havoc on relationships.

It is a totally selfish thing. For me it was all about having two guys please me completly.

bab · 13th October 2006, 4:13 PM

I certainly fantasize about it, but it's not one that I would act out. Even if my husband agreed to it (which I think is actually possible) the risk of ruining my marriage is far outweighs the benefit, no matter how good the sex might be.

everlong · 13th October 2006, 4:14 PM

well...sometimes selfish is ok you know hots....

nothing wrong with that...in fact...i would hope that the two guys would feel the same way...i would look at it that way...pleasing someone is also pleasing to the pleaser because they get to please the pleasette and thus become pleased in the process...

lol