i kind of like this girl, however i don't know her much and i was thinking of asking her to a halloween dance, do u think i should ask her to a dance or should i ask her for a date before i ask her to the dance? i'm not sure if it's too soon. i spoken to her a few times but i don't know her that much....should i get to know her better and then ask her?
am i doing things too fast? and also i'm a senior in high school(16)..i'm not experience in that dating thing..and i just recently started to talk to girls...yea i know it's sad..anway anyone have any advise?
Maybe you could get to know her. Maybe talk to her a little more than a few times. That way she'd feel more comfortable to say yes to your dance offer. Good luck! :]
Maybe just go up to her all trying to be playfull dont be to intense and just see if shes going to the dance. "Are you going to the Halloween dance" she may say yes" if she does say great because shes going to be the prettiest girl there or some compliment like that" and then try to get her number and then call it a few days later and see if you can take her to the dance if shes going with some one else still try to cut in and get a dance from her. If she says shes not then be like "thats to bad now the dance is probably going to suck" then ask for her number and call her a few days later and tell her your taking her to the dance she may just go along with it she may not. you just got to try something there will be tons of other hot chicks from your school at the dance even you dont take them there yourself so just go to the dance whether you get a date or not and maybe ask some other girls to go to if this girl doesnt want to give you her number or let you take her. Oh yeah and you dont really want girls to feel comfortable around you its better to have them guessing you just need them to accept you,
horrible plan dont ask her about other guys just come out of the blue as you put it make some small talk about the dance and ask her for her number say you two should go togather you dont have to say you like her or anything gushy if she says why do you want to go with her you could say guess or flirt with her just make a move already and dont talk to her about other guys!
i think i gonna ask her to go on a date with me tomorrow cuz we gonna go on a field trip..and i'll try and talk to her more. but should i ask her for her number before i ask her to a date? or..should i ask her to a date and then ask her number..
how should i react when she rejects me? should i just keep quite...and ignore her in the future?
Say this: "Do you have a date for the dance?" She'll respond no. Then say, "Good. I'd like to take you to it. We'll have lots of fun." It's seriously that simple.
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Just say thats to bad if she rejects you and then ignore her if thats what you feel like or act like nothing happened and just be the same as you were before and try asking her out again some girls say no and then say yes
make some small talk about the dance like a few days before, and try to hint that u plan on asking her, that way, she will have some time to thin about it, and will decide if she is smart enough to get u wanna ask her. Then the next day, try and get in a spot where ur alone with her, and bring up the dance again. Ask if shes going with anyone, if she says no, ask her then. if she says yes and decides to go with you, you ask her for her number AFTER she says yes. Dont think about her saying no, itll only bring your confidence down. Make it seem like SHES the lucky one to go with YOU, not the other way around.
Your a chicken didnt even try to ask her out, cmon now dont be a wimp make her answer your O so important question of Want to go to the dance togather, heck if she says no ask her for her # any way
just ask her dude, there is no time for regrets in life and if she says no than say something like "thnx neway i thought i would give it a try, maybe we could be friends instead?" i said this a couple of times to girls that have rejected me and we are friends now, just give it a shot, who knows she might say yes, i have learnt that if someone convinces themselves that something is impossible than chances are it is, but if you believe then you can do it, well something like that anyway, please respond to link below: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t100713/
You need to get to know her better by the sounds of it...BTW, dont act all serious - at your age, girls love guys who play and mess around with them even more...so tease her, make her laugh, do crazy things, basically do not take it seriously and think too much about what you are saying
If she responds by laughing at you, touching you, starting conversations with you...then you should ask her and not be hesitant - if you just ask her like that and dont even know her well, not only will she think you are a freak but you will also be left embarassed...BTW, rejection is great - so if it happens, it happens - but talk to her as much as you can before you ask...
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asking a girl to a dance.
but you will also be left embarassed...BTW, rejection is great - so if it happens, it happens - but talk to her as much as you can before you ask...
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