After 25 years of marriage, my husband came up with allowing me to share chat and pics with men and other women online.
It is very erotic and stimulating plus, it's safe.
A hint: Have a selection of pics that are progressively more provocative
as the chat intensifies.
Do you *know* where your photos (and convo transcripts) are going? where they will wind up down the road? or know for certain that your online webcam sessions are not being recorded?
Do you even care if they are? or have you considered how they can come back to damage your (and your family's) life?
Do you feel an increasing *need* to be online doing this with someone? Does it feel the least bit *addictive* for you?
Does the content of what you do become increasingly more "out there" (more explicit?) with time?
Do you feel less and less "in touch" with the person you are married to or committed to in "real life"? For instance has the significance of the bond between you and your real life partner decreased?
Are you showing even the slightest signs of living more in the virtual world of your PC than in your real life world?
Do you find yourself being increasingly tempted to look in sex/porn sites for more than just passing curiosity?
Do you find yourself feeling jealous of your online cybersex partner, and wondering whether or not he/she is "cheating" on you?
Has being online involved in cybersex become more important, and more gratifying than having sex with your partner who can display feelings and emotions in person??
Asnswer each of those questions for yourself.
Then decide if this can turn out to be (or already has become) more of a problem for you than you really want to take on.
-Rio
Last edited by riobikini; 1st October 2006 at 12:40 PM..
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