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" My husband has never ever noticed a thing."
Spouses notice more than you think. The bottom line is wheather they choose to inform you that they know or not. Sure, he may be completley blindsided by whats going on. Then again he may know something is up but chooses not to ask, or turns the other cheek (denial) about things. SOMETIMES a spouse will know whats going on, choose not to say anything, because they feel it would be calling the kettle black becuase they are out doing the same thing. Notice, I said SOMETIMES thats the case. I think what people need to do , is make a choice. Either pull together as a team to work on whats going on, seek counseling or get out of the situation all together. If people are wanting to work on things, heres 2 books I recommend.
"The Five Love Languages"....by Gary Chapman
"The 7 Love Agreements"...by Douglas Weiss
Jade
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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
~Dr. Suess~
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