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Originally Posted by portableversion
interesting.
at wikipedia dot org under a search for 'divorce' , researchers did a study of divorce in the UK. 70% of petitioners were women, and the most common reason for the divorce was 'emotional unfulfillment'. look it up.
confidence does not mean cold and uncaring. OR does it?
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No, no, no, no! What's this got to do with the price of tea in China? Cold and uncaring isn't what we're getting at here. Nobody said anything about cold and uncaring. Or torture, or beating, or murder, or rape either. Emotional fulfillment doesn't mean breaking down like an old Ford pickup either you know. What you want is to seem perfectly capable of carrying on and starting to date again if your wife/GF want's to leave you or stray. You need to seem perfectly willing and capable of taking care of yourself and leave should the need arise. You want to keep thier interest on you up, and their interests in other men down, not hurt them. What you don't want is to shed your gender role and become a whining sniveling little maggot who crawls on his belly. A pet who licks boots for attention. A wailing Nancy who needs to be dressed in skirts. Though you are well deserving of the pity you'll recieve while acting like this, it's not the kind of attention you want from your mate or potential mate.
Woggle, BTW. Your ex only had a momentary interest in you when you changed behavior. She only wondered why you weren't groveling anymore. You piqued her interest by pricking her ego. As soon as you decided to pursue, it probably would have gone downhill quickly, again.
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