[Jolene]

I would like to help you with your disturbances, however, I don't tote around my home library and cannot provide complete bibliography to back up my statements.

By the way, it's a free world.

My formal apologies to all those who have taken offense on this lovely 'GENERAL RELATIONSHIP' forum where a post regarding BDSM was presented earlier today. I should have known this was normal conversation between people in typical relationships.

What was I thinking?

[clandestinidad]

Yeah, I wouldnt approach this through the personals....its too dangerous, on many levels (std's, murderers, abusers, people who claim to be women but arent...either trannys or gay men or men who like to rape people, etc etc)

I'd look into contacting groups (not necessarily meaning for group sex of course) in your area, where you can meet/date/whatever, people who share similar interests...its much safer and more likely to form a longer lasting relationship than the alternative.

I've been tattoo'd and pierced, and havent EVER seen any BDSM propoganda in these establishments so I wouldnt go there for this matter. I'd say look on the internet for interest groups, sex stores, blah blah blah

(and i think its funny, the things some people consider deviant behaviors just b/c they dont have the balls to do it....granted, SOME people carry things too far but its NOT the majority)

Also....do you have the movie Secretary?!?!? Its one of my favorites of all time!!!!!!!

replys are really appreciated. Clearly Joene has some deep issues, I hope she gets the help she needs.
At least she brought out the best in other posters.

Anyone have advice for her?

Ironically, years ago I met an attractive lady who was REALLY into this stuff, but I used to be afraid of this stuff back then...so nothing happened.