[StillHurtin]

Originally posted by aklost101
she wasn't wearing a ring... does that mean anything to anyone?

The last time I heard someone that made a comment on a MW not wearing her wedding ring was about my H's exOW not wearing her wedding ring. A friend of mine called and asked me the same question you did about the ring, she said the OW wasn't wearing her ring anymore. There was rumors going around my H was having an A w/ this OW. Less than week later she filed a D from her H.

But that isn't the same for every case. Sometimes I take my rings off to highlight my hair, house clean, ect and I forget to put my rings back on right away. At times I leave the house in a hurry. Just b/c I am not wearing my wedding ring doesn't mean I am not M.

Maybe she does know he is having an A and has taken off her rings and wants a D, it's hard to tell. There could be many reasons why she didn't have her ring on.

When I was the OW to a man in a CR I went into the store where his fiancee worked. I wasn't in there checking her out, it just happened to be my favorite clothing store in town and she just happened to start working there. As soon as I found out she was working there I stopped going b/c it made me feel so bad but I couldn't let go of him. I was young, stupid, and selfish.

[soccorsilly]

You live in a small town and while it is probably that she could stop in on a coincidence, I am guessing in your situation it was planned.

You are having an affair with a MM and it is his intention to keep it secret. What the hell are you all doing drinking with his buddys...running into the wives of friends...cavorting so the neighbors can see...he is asking to get caught and I suspect that he has been busted.

There is a website called philanderers dot com that offers tips on how not to get caught and it seems like this dope broke all the rules.

[aklost101]

lol i may be one of the few OW around who doesn't want their MM to leave their W for themselves