we are born until close to day we die. You don't hear men complaining about that???? We still provide many women with half if not all of their financial support.
I have as of yet not found a man who has supported me financially..
I'm seriously doing something wrong..
all I have I have gotten on my own.. even during my marriages I was the one pushing out most of the financial support..
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Originally posted by Opium
I do agree with you that it's hard to find a good deceit woman/man. But it's a little harsh to say that a woman who got a divorce besides being cheated on or abused is no good. You make it seem as if it's not that it's because she' a gold digger and wants more. What if they just stop loving each other? Are you going to be with a woman/man that you don't love and be miserable? Don't think so!
It's hard to say that a woman who as a child is baggage and is not a good woman. I know many woman (some even in my family) that get pregnant while engaged or dating someone for over 5 years and it didn't work out. The kids have nothing to do with the woman. And to say she has a poor judgment and does't make good choices is just wrong to me.
MOOD SWINGS...HELLO WE GET OUR PERIODS ONCE A MONTH AND BLEED FROM OUR COOCH...You'd be moody too!!!
I just think you haven't found the true meaning behind a woman and all you're doing is assuming that 99.9% of the woman are they way you mentioned. Which may be the case for SOME woman but not all. Woman just want to be loved and want her SO to show a little appreciation for her commitment to her man. This also goes for men too, some just look in the wrong places and it seems you are too.
I do mean it about divorce. it shows
that she views relationships as disposable.
Some women who have kids are good women but I would be cautious. That is one that is somewhat negogiable
Moody is one thing acting like a psycho isn't. I refuse to be with a woman that hates me for half the month. What is the friggin point.
Originally posted by DacaInaru
AlphaMale, are you married???
i was married for 3+ yrs but I dumped her ass cause she was worthless....i've also dumped 80% of all the women i've been with in any capacity. women to me are a commodity, not unlike gasoline or electricity. but that does not mean i hate them. i actually love them.
Originally posted by alphamale
Big ****ing deal OPIUM!!! WTF! The vast majority of men have to work their asses off 45+ hours a week from the day we are born until close to day we die. You don't hear men complaining about that???? We still provide many women with half if not all of their financial support. Why do women never mention that they have so many more choices than men do in the working world? Many women work part-time, some never work, some work for a few yrs then quit, etc....Most men do not get these choices. We are out ther every day for decades on end busting our butts. Then we die early of heart attacks and strokes and whatnot. I never hear women mentioning those facts....
I actually made close to a million in stocks so I don't have to work but I need something to do. My money is for me and not any woman. If I get involved again she will have to be financially independent. I would rather marry a doctor or politician than a housewife.
Originally posted by alphamale
Big ****ing deal OPIUM!!! WTF! The vast majority of men have to work their asses off 45+ hours a week from the day we are born until close to day we die. You don't hear men complaining about that???? We still provide many women with half if not all of their financial support. Why do women never mention that they have so many more choices than men do in the working world? Many women work part-time, some never work, some work for a few yrs then quit, etc....Most men do not get these choices. We are out ther every day for decades on end busting our butts. Then we die early of heart attacks and strokes and whatnot. I never hear women mentioning those facts....
Alpha, no need to get upset. I work hard to as you may do as well. I totally agree with you that some woman are leaches and should help a man out more, by all means I give you that. All I'm saying is that a good deceit woman could fit one of his categories and he might dismiss her because he thinks this way.
I personally don't want my husband to be the main money maker, why? 1. because I want to be able to provide my family with anything they need and want and only one income isn't going to cut it, Plus I have a degree and dammit it cost me a lot of money and i'm going to use it. 2. because it's not fair that my husband as to work like an animal and me just juice him. I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that in my opinion.
Give the woman/man the benefit of the doubt and then judge them. That's all!!
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Originally posted by Woggle
I know plenty of misandrists who use men. Most goldiggers hate men. There are many women who get off on hurting men. I actuallly don't lie to women. I tell them I use them for sex and somehow they think they can change me. I am a challenge to them.
A challenge?
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Originally posted by scratch
I agree, but bitterness is a matter of degree. I am bitter and cynical to the extent that I arrange most first and second dates to coincide with things I would have done anyway, e.g. go for a run, hang out at a bar with friends, or watch a ballgame, because I don't always expect the woman to show up. However, if she does I make a good faith effort to show her a good time. Do I exude bitterness? Probably, but only if the woman is really looking for it, which would make her bitter and cynical too, no?
Hm, yes, you're less hysterical, I guess. More successful with the ladies, therefore you're a bit less desperate and less angry, you haven't faced as many rejections.
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You said he couldn't get laid, but as I said, it's a common refrain among many women here. Maybe this is Woggle's place to rant and vent. So long as he explains himself and his reasoning, that's okay with me.
Who cares what they say... I don't take everybody serious just because they wear a skirt. If he runs around and claims he's using women for sex then I can inform him about my doubts in regard to the truthfulness of this statement.
Originally posted by alphamale
Many women work part-time, some never work, some work for a few yrs then quit, etc....Most men do not get these choices. We are out ther every day for decades on end busting our butts. Then we die early of heart attacks and strokes and whatnot. I never hear women mentioning those facts....
Slow down there, ace. Of course we get those choices. Men work hard until death because they want to provide for women and children, because they love their jobs, or because they allow themselves to be defined by work and know not another way to live.
I'm retiring at 38 with a residual income, enough for me and a child if I have one. If I am with a woman who can support herself financially, that would be great. But I'd rather be alone and searching, rather than with someone who wants or (even worse) needs my money.
Alpha, it's a copout to blame men's vanity or stupidity on women.
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Opium, I'm sure you don't mean to do it, but you keep using 'deceit' which means 'lie' instead of 'decent'.
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Alpha, it's a copout to blame men's vanity or stupidity on women.
Exactly and that men blame their issues on women only tells women that they are not all that bright to start off with. And yes it's the same for women who blame men. The self-aware human figures out his own role in his misfortunes and then works on himself in order to avoid making similar mistakes. Which does not mean turning into a user or any other sort of unpleasant person. It is the inferior mind that believes that becoming cruel and unpleasant is a good answer to one's own problems. And smart women avoid men like that like the plague. So the Woggles and Alphas of the world may indeed get to screw some really stupid females but then will neither win nor keep the love of a good woman. Hey - if that's your idea of a great life, have at it
Originally posted by Woggle
I actually made close to a million in stocks so I don't have to work but I need something to do. My money is for me and not any woman. If I get involved again she will have to be financially independent. I would rather marry a doctor or politician than a housewife.
A million isn't that much, really. By the time you get yourself a house and furnish it and a decent vehicle the residual will provide a little income but not that much. When you have three or more million in the bank, then you can brag
Originally posted by Outcast
A million isn't that much, really. By the time you get yourself a house and furnish it and a decent vehicle the residual will provide a little income but not that much. When you have three or more million in the bank, then you can brag
I make good money at my job as well and I plan on investing. Overrall I am doing good.
Originally posted by Outcast
Exactly and that men blame their issues on women only tells women that they are not all that bright to start off with. And yes it's the same for women who blame men. The self-aware human figures out his own role in his misfortunes and then works on himself in order to avoid making similar mistakes. Which does not mean turning into a user or any other sort of unpleasant person. It is the inferior mind that believes that becoming cruel and unpleasant is a good answer to one's own problems. And smart women avoid men like that like the plague. So the Woggles and Alphas of the world may indeed get to screw some really stupid females but then will neither win nor keep the love of a good woman. Hey - if that's your idea of a great life, have at it
Originally posted by Outcast
So the Woggles and Alphas of the world may indeed get to screw some really stupid females but then will neither win nor keep the love of a good woman. Hey - if that's your idea of a great life, have at it
vast majority of women I've "screwed" have been college educated professionals.
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but that does not mean i hate them. i actually love them.
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