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Old 11th August 2005, 4:41 PM   #1
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Life could not be better.
Why do you have an atomic/nuclear bomb in your avatar?
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:41 PM   #2
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None of these things matter if you don't have an open heart.
Yes they do. I care deeply about my friends and family. I am happier than almost all my married friends or friends in relationships.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:43 PM   #3
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Why do you have an atomic/nuclear bomb in your avatar?
I couldn't find any other good image that small. It is kinda fitting with the 60th anniversary of Hiroshima though. That wasn't the reason I did it.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:46 PM   #4
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I care deeply about my friends and family.
I have to assume then that none of your friends or family are female.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:50 PM   #5
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I have to assume then that none of your friends or family are female.
Nah I have an aunt that is one of the greatest human beings I know.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:51 PM   #6
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Nah I have an aunt that is one of the greatest human beings I know.
would you want her to be treated the way you treat women?
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:55 PM   #7
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would you want her to be treated the way you treat women?
That kind of thinking isn't going to work with woogle
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:56 PM   #8
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The funny thing is that ever since I developed this new outlook things have been going great in my life.

I landed a great job and I am making good money

I played the stocks well and made a fortune

I have the house almost paid off

I am not even 30 yet and in about 2 years I will have no more mortgage on my house.

I am eating healthier and taking better care of myself


Life could not be better.
I'm sorry but this isn't because you've changed your attitude toward woman. It's because you've changed your attitude about life and took your head out of your azz and started doing something about it. The woman was just a push to get you to do what it is you really wanted to do.

Landed a job? Your resume was probably good and you fit well for the position!

Played stocks? Lucky motha****er!

House almost payed off? How long have you been paying for it? Did you refinance, or came up with some money from the stocks?

Eating healthier? Because you want to feel better about yourself and look good!

None of these reasons you gave are because you've changed your attitude about WOMAN it's because you made a change within yourself to make you a better person. You just have this grudge against woman and if you continue you're going to let a good one go.
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Old 11th August 2005, 5:27 PM   #9
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Will SOMEONE answer my question?!?!?!??!?!?!?!??!?!

It wasnt rhetorical, I am really wondering where you stand in it

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So what, these people who got pregnant and didnt have abortions to get rid of it are somehow WORSE than those who DID get rid of it?!?!?!? As if its better to date them b/c they dont have evidence of having sex?!?! (even though they might be the bigger slut/whore) And your advice to men is that its better to date a girl that killed her child/fetus, rather than one who is sacrificing her life and living her life for her child?!?!?!? COME ON!!!!
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I'd still like to know if ya'll would prefer dating a woman who's had abortions....b/c then she doesnt have the horrible child-baggage

edit to add: Also, how would you KNOW if she ever got pregnant and killed the child/fetus!!? You'd probably be dating someone who DID make bad choices (getting pregnant, abortions (if you consider that a bad choice or not), etc etc) but you wouldnt know, b/c "well, she doesnt have kids, so I'll date her".....duuuuuhh.....get a clue
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Besides the fact that no one, namely YOU since you were the OP, has answered my question (which I've asked twice) about women who've had abortions as opposed to women who actually kept their children....do you think that's better than dating someone with kids?! (there, now its been 3 times, and hopefully you'll address it now)
So, for the 4th time.....do you think its better to date a woman who's had 1 or more abortions, than a woman who actually kept them????
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Old 11th August 2005, 5:38 PM   #10
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So, for the 4th time.....do you think its better to date a woman who's had 1 or more abortions, than a woman who actually kept them????
I'd go with the abortion lady. Its easier to be spontaneous with a woman who has no kids...
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Old 11th August 2005, 5:41 PM   #11
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I'd go with the abortion lady. Its easier to be spontaneous with a woman who has no kids...
Ha! I won't tell you the reason cause I'm sure you can guess......but I'm almost glad you anserwed this the way you did.........
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Old 11th August 2005, 5:41 PM   #12
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Okay...thanks, alpha.....now what about woggle
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Old 11th August 2005, 6:01 PM   #13
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would you want her to be treated the way you treat women?
No but she wouldn't put up with it anyway. She waited until 38 to get married so she isn't the type that would settle for anything. If I met a truly good woman right now I would tell her that right now I can't trust a woman and she deserves better than me. I would not string her along. She always made sure my father and I were doing okay though. She is probably one of the reasons why I believe some exceptions do exist and why I didn't turn into some Ted Bundy type serial killer.
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Old 11th August 2005, 6:03 PM   #14
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Okay...thanks, alpha.....now what about woggle
Okay I will answer this. I would not date either one for anything serious. I think abortion should be legal but I don't agree with it and I would not want to date a woman that had one. I would date a woman that used birth control or made him wear a condom though.
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Old 11th August 2005, 6:04 PM   #15
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Oh goody. Recipe for a serial killler:

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My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself.
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I will never forgive my mother telling me that I am the garbage leftover from before she found herself.
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My former live in girlfriend that tried to press domestic abuse charges against me even though all the abuse was ta her hands. I never once hit her
Oh right. Just like another poster on here claiming he's not violent because he 'only pushed her and she fell and hit her head' and then said it would be her killing herself if she had died.

All you have to do is use the words 'bitches and whores' when speaking about women and we'll have to send people looking for the remnants of missing women to your place.

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always say there are exceptions and that is why I say that if what I say does not apply to a woman she should not take offense because I am not talking about her.
I've yet to see that.
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