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Old 11th August 2005, 4:01 PM   #1
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Actually one of my sex buddies right now is begging me to take it further. I tell her all the time what her role in my life is but she wants more. I might have to drop her altogether. She is great in bed but when you try to have a conversation with her she is very empty.
Thats really sad for her.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:04 PM   #2
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I have no problem having sex with single moms. They are good for a nice lay but not good enough for a relationship. Many of them are quite good in bed as they have some experience.
This remark makes me feel as if you have no respect woman period!

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Actually one of my sex buddies right now is begging me to take it further. I tell her all the time what her role in my life is but she wants more. I might have to drop her altogether.
Once again, no respect!

Let me give you an ultimatum, play along Woggle. If you starting dating a woman, beautiful, smart, funny, well rounded in all the areas you like. You're dating for some time, you sleep together, spend a lot of time together and you find yourself falling for her. Not love just feel strong for her. You decide what the heck, I'll give this one a try and you are more serious and everythings going great. Now, since you've made things official and she feels better about you, she introduces you to her SON/DAUGHTER, then what??

The reason she never told you before is because she didn't want her kid to get attached without knowing if you're a sure thing. Most woman do this!

What the hell would you do? I think I know your answer but lets see what kind of man you are.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:07 PM   #3
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Thats really sad for her.
It is. I find that many women react that way to men who refuse to be emasculated.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:08 PM   #4
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I'm just amazed and naive I suppose.. considering that.. usually the women are technically the bitter ones.. heck i've been bitter a pretty dang long time.. difference is I didn't screw random men just for the heck of it..

I often wonder if these bitter guys actually do get sex.. I mean lets face it if they are bitter here.. i'm sure they are just as bitter in real life..

saddly.. bitterness against any sex only makes for a life full of misery... hopefully they will be able to get past their issues and truely find someone who will treat them well irregardless of if she has a child or not.. and whom they will respect and care for..

after almost 6 years of bitterness I know what it bring.. and that is nothing but more misery... I can't blame my F'd up relationships on all men.. I have to take my responsiblities for my roles in them.. but I guess that happens when you grow up.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:11 PM   #5
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It is. I find that many women react that way to men who refuse to be emasculated.
so if a woman wants more out of a relationship that emasculates the man???
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:11 PM   #6
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This remark makes me feel as if you have no respect woman period!



Once again, no respect!

Let me give you an ultimatum, play along Woggle. If you starting dating a woman, beautiful, smart, funny, well rounded in all the areas you like. You're dating for some time, you sleep together, spend a lot of time together and you find yourself falling for her. Not love just feel strong for her. You decide what the heck, I'll give this one a try and you are more serious and everythings going great. Now, since you've made things official and she feels better about you, she introduces you to her SON/DAUGHTER, then what??

The reason she never told you before is because she didn't want her kid to get attached without knowing if you're a sure thing. Most woman do this!

What the hell would you do? I think I know your answer but lets see what kind of man you are.
If everything else was right with her I would respct her for not having a revolving door of men in and out of the child's life. I might give it a try. Actually there are exceptions to the single mom rule but it still is a proceed with caution sign.

Most women deserve no respect. Nobody deserves respct for having a vagina alone. People earn respct by the content of their character. There are many women I do respect but not because they are women.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:12 PM   #7
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nasty nasty

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It is. I find that many women react that way to men who refuse to be emasculated.
I agree WOGGLE....and I'm glad you're around to take some of the heat off of me


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I often wonder if these bitter guys actually do get sex..
bitter guys get the most sex of all cause they don't have to pretend to be *******s, they ARE *******.....and we all know how most women love *******s
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:13 PM   #8
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It is. I find that many women react that way to men who refuse to be emasculated.
It must be good to live in your own little world uh?

This isn't a matter of YOU refusing to be emasculated, this is a matter of you refusing to be DECENT.

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Old 11th August 2005, 4:14 PM   #9
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Can we just all agree that...

SOME women are bitter, others are not.
SOME men are bitter, others are not.
SOME men have respect for women, others do not.
SOME women like to emasulate their men, others do not.
SOME single moms want a new baby daddy, others (like Merin and Kat) do NOT.
SOME single daddys are players just looking for p*ssy, others want more.

We're all different and have different experiences. But WOGGLE, it's just plain stupid to categorize women the way you do - there's ALWAYS an exception to the rule, and especially to YOUR rules.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:14 PM   #10
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so if a woman wants more out of a relationship that emasculates the man???
No not all but a man who gives up his dignity for a woman is emasculated. This woman can leavwe my life tomorrow and it wouldn't mean a thing to me. She is disposable and she knows it. I guess this attractes her even more. She doesn;t have the right balance that I look for in a woman.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:14 PM   #11
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sigh.. damn I am the exception.. can count on 1 hand the number of guys i've actually had sex with.. I feel like i'm missing something.
You're not missing out ... next Woggle will say he doesn't want to be in a relationship with a woman who has slept with more than 5 men. I know LOTS of guys who feel this way.
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:15 PM   #12
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Re: nasty nasty

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and we all know how most women love *******s
NO, MOST women do not. They want a strong man, not an *********.
Gay men, on the other hand, quite literally love a man's *********...so if that's the sort of lovin' you're going for...
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:15 PM   #13
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Can we just all agree that...

SOME women are bitter, others are not.
SOME men are bitter, others are not.
SOME men have respect for women, others do not.
SOME women like to emasulate their men, others do not.
SOME single moms want a new baby daddy, others (like Merin and Kat) do NOT.
SOME single daddys are players just looking for p*ssy, others want more.

We're all different and have different experiences. But WOGGLE, it's just plain stupid to categorize women the way you do - there's ALWAYS an exception to the rule, and especially to YOUR rules.
AGREE!!
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:16 PM   #14
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No not all but a man who gives up his dignity for a woman is emasculated. This woman can leavwe my life tomorrow and it wouldn't mean a thing to me. She is disposable and she knows it. I guess this attractes her even more. She doesn;t have the right balance that I look for in a woman.

hmmm.. so a woman is disposable.. was your mama disposable too?
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Old 11th August 2005, 4:16 PM   #15
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Can we just all agree that...

SOME women are bitter, others are not.
SOME men are bitter, others are not.
SOME men have respect for women, others do not.
SOME women like to emasulate their men, others do not.
SOME single moms want a new baby daddy, others (like Merin and Kat) do NOT.
SOME single daddys are players just looking for p*ssy, others want more.

We're all different and have different experiences. But WOGGLE, it's just plain stupid to categorize women the way you do - there's ALWAYS an exception to the rule, and especially to YOUR rules.
I always say there are exceptions and that is why I say that if what I say does not apply to a woman she should not take offense because I am not talking about her.
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