Ah, Sanne….revenge plots are better left to the imagination so you can look back and laugh at them later. If you act on anger, you may end up with a healthy dose of regret and embarrassment . Believe me, if it weren't for my own good conscious I'd have bodies buried all over the place by now.
But you know what I found to work best?...
When you leave that person with the last memory of you being at your very best. It's easy to walk away from someone who's angry and vindictive. It helps to validate their decision. But if you maintain an air of dignity, grace and kindness, THAT'S what they'll spend the rest of their life looking back on…and missing.
Make sure that you conduct yourself so well in a relationship (from beginning to end), that no other man will ever compare to the memory of you.
Of course, depending on how well you learn to execute this relationship technique, you may end up with more than your fair share of psycho stalkers! So be careful how you use it!
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"It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.” ~ Mark Twain
whoa......you guys are right, i need to chill out. i'm sorry i just got so overcome with my own anger and rage. i think i'm just going to sit her down and let her know how i feel to be honest and leave it like that.
Make sure that you conduct yourself so well in a relationship (from beginning to end), that no other man will ever compare to the memory of you.
The best revenge plan I can think of~
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The male brain is more compartmentalized than the female brain. Men can seperate things whereas women have a harder time cause their brains are all wired together in some inter-connected mish-mosh.
Originally posted by EnigmaXOXO
When you leave that person with the last memory of you being at your very best. It's easy to walk away from someone who's angry and vindictive. It helps to validate their decision. But if you maintain an air of dignity, grace and kindness, THAT'S what they'll spend the rest of their life looking back on…and missing.
Make sure that you conduct yourself so well in a relationship (from beginning to end), that no other man will ever compare to the memory of you.
Pure genius.
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Originally posted by sanne
whoa......you guys are right, i need to chill out. i'm sorry i just got so overcome with my own anger and rage.
I see improvement.....
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Originally posted by sanne i think i'm just going to sit her down and let her know how i feel to be honest and leave it like that.
i was gonna say, when we were kids and would TP (roll) people's houses that we did not like, my mother used to tell me that she would have taken it as a Compliment, because it had to take a lot of thought and planning and time.
which, is true, your anger was soo strong because there are still feelings there. you really cannot hate someone you do not really care about.....cause you should not be feelng anything anything anyways.
that prob. does not make any sense either.................
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you guys are right, I want my last memories with her to be the best she's ever had. I want her to think back at me and always feel as if she will never love someone as much as she loves me. I'm going to be the best person I can from now on.
Phew, this is exactly why I posted this on the forums, to get some good advice that I need to hear. From now on I'm going to be the best most caring person she's ever met, if she wants to abuse me and use me then I'm just going to leave and let her live with the fact that she let me get away.
Originally posted by sanne
Phew, this is exactly why I posted this on the forums, to get some good advice that I need to hear. From now on I'm going to be the best most caring person she's ever met, if she wants to abuse me and use me then I'm just going to leave and let her live with the fact that she let me get away.
Just don't over do that either, know what I mean jellybean? Don't be too nice!!!
i know i won't be a pushover, i never have been. but i won't go out of my way to be stubborn and hurtful like i have been. i'll just be the perfect guy to her and see what happens.
Originally posted by sanne
i know i won't be a pushover, i never have been. but i won't go out of my way to be stubborn and hurtful like i have been. i'll just be the perfect guy to her and see what happens.
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So be careful how you use it! 
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