[shellys-trying]

I have a problem and I don't know what to do.

I've lived in the town I'm at for 3 years now. I have 4 kids and am married.
When I started doing my weekly shopping I went to this certain store cause it was really reasonably priced. You frugal shoppers who have a big family will understand me.
Anyway, there was this one young woman (mid-20's) who was cashier there and I didn't notice anything at first but when my husband would shop with me she would just stare and stare at him. I tried to ignore it, but after going in a 4th time w/ H in tow and her staring, I made a casual comment to H about her staring each time we would go in the store. He blew it off but noticed as we went to check out (not her aisle) what I was talking about.

Now my H cheated a year before we moved and we were just working it out and getting over the worst part of the A, and this young miss cashier woman starts her staring. To make it worse, the next time we went into this store she uses our little son as an excuse to talk with my H. I wasn't surprised by her tactics.

So, I thought I'm not gonna give up my fave store cause Suzy Cashier is subtly making goo-goo eyes at my H. I was finished with low self esteem and some wanna be OW doing her THANG at my H, and so my H decided he'd give her a hint, an innocent one and would do things, infront of her, like buy little love cards for me and pay for them down her aisle, with our daughter as witness to what he was up to. I mean, I give my H credit for trying to be legit and honestly wanting this woman to get the hint he is married and happily so!

Anyway, this woman eventually quit the store but now we see her everywhere and she has no inhibitions to staring at my H anywhere we are. To make it worse, she has much younger brothers who go to school with our daughter, in our daughter's classroom infact, so when I and/or H picks our daughter up from school, we have to be in the same room with Suzy Cashier (I'll call her that).

My H tells me when he goes to school and picks our daughter up he can see and/or feel Suzy Cashier's eyes on him and he feels like he's being stalked. He lets me go to the school most of the time, BTW.
I thought at first (since he's cheated before) he would feel flattered by Suzy Cashier's attention, but he seems like it's irritating and annoying. The way he talks he feels like he'd like to give her a dirty look or tell her to buzz off, but doesn't have any real evidence and it would make him look stupid since all she does is stare.

I mean, don't get me wrong, at first when this staring thing started way back when Suzy Cashier worked at the store, H would ask me silly stuff like "do I have a booger hanging out?" .

I've seen with my own eyes how this woman will deliberately put herself in my husband's path so she can shake her bootie when she walks by him, and I've SEEN him grimace in irritation, so I'm not worried about him being attracted to her.

I feel so annoyed about this situation but helpless. Am I (and my H) overreacting? ALL opinions and thoughts are MOST welcome! Sock it to me!