Originally posted by moimeme
This would be the 'embittered single cynic's guide to getting young, inexperienced chickies'. Real women would have nothing to do with that bullshyt.
Ah, but Angus, no true scotswoman puts sugar on her porridge.
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This list looks like an information pamphlet on misogyny. I would think that such a list which promotes male dominance and female submission would not be applauded here on LoveShack; maybe I give some people more credit than they deserve. Sometimes I almost feel like Hamlet in this sense.
This list looks like an information pamphlet on misogyny.
Exactly. And it becomes painfully clear that even smart, independent women have somehow been brainwashed to believe this type of behaviour on the part of men is acceptable. Really, really sad.
The other option is that people are just going along to humour someone they consider a buffoon.
List looked fine to me. If you feel the need to memorize that list, or print it and carry around in your wallet, you're missing the point. All that stuff should pretty much come naturally, not because you're trying to manipulate a woman, but because you know what you want. Acting like you know what you want in life is a poor substitute for actually knowing.
I, for instance, could not make such a list. Being a jerk to my girlfriend is automatic for me. The real pros don't need recipes.
Jesus, that is so true it's incredible. Sadly, easy to read, tough to put into practice. At least for me, I have only recently come to these realizations and \old habits are hard to break.
I was an idiot and listened to my mom who always told me, "Treat her well and be nice and don't push for sex and make sure you are always there emotionally." GREAT. As you may imagine, I have had some really close friends that are girls using that technique.
I recently started listening to my little sister and things have changed 180. I am lucky to have her.
Originally posted by johan
I, for instance, could not make such a list. Being a jerk to my girlfriend is automatic for me. The real pros don't need recipes.
no JOHAN, we are just trying to spread the wealth and assist certain males who may not be aware of these things. there are many of them out there, god help their souls.
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