[karlym3]

dating this guy--who I had previosly dated a while back.( i mean we dated for liek 2 weeks but work together) I stopped dating him, returning his phone calls etc as he is an pretty cool guy but when we get near the bedroom.. he becomes very aggresive-while I feel its way to early to be doing ..what he wants to be doing--even forplay. Back then I had let him know it really bothered me and i wanted to take thigns slow and get to know him--he says that is ok and hell take me out etc etc. Well i stopped communication anyway..as i met someone new and didnt want to be bothered. the 6 wks of no communication drove him nuts. he called me at least 3 times a wk with no return call from me. Well i saw him the other day and we talked and i agreed to go out with him again(he looked really cute, and said he wanted to take me to dinner/movie )

He ends up being sick,(had surgery done) and so i felt bad and went over there to watch a movie--he promised he would not be aggressive). Well of course we start watchign the movie and gets very very touchy feely on me. I asked him to stop but once he is the moment its hard from him to stop--hell be naked and ill be fully clothed--he says i dont understand I promise we are not going to have sex, just do other stuff and we both like each other-- he always does this but when I get angry and get ready to go ..he was like next time we are def going to go out and stay out of the house--i just can help it because im really really attracted to you and I like you and i dont want to hide it etc. I tell him all the time--if sex is what you want you are with the wrong girl--there are many girls you can get it from--so why are you wasting your time with me-im not ready. He says but he likes me.. or whatever. He seems to get upset at the time, but then calls the next day sums up what we talked about and apologizies.( he is like ok for the next couple of times we will go out to the park, bars, dinner/movie etc hwo is tuesday and ill call you this weekend) Its like once he gets started he turns into this wild man.. but feels bad after. He has strong hormones..? Not sure wanting some advice on how to handle this.. I do know that I shall stay out of his house and mine and only go out with him if we go OUT. Has anyone ever had a situation like this before??