I don't see how someone can be your girlfriend if you don't even kiss them. But to each his own. I don't think there's any "rules" that must be followed. I would personally recommend not having sex on the first few dates. But that doesn't mean if you have sex on the first date the relationship is doomed. I guess the idea is if someone is just looking for some booty he'll give up after a few dates and move onto an easier target.
well me: i have only had 1 "Real" BF. my current guy, i have been with him for 2yrs.
i have dated a ton of boys and men. but i woud not consider them BF's. they were ususally guys that i went out with, and probably slept with.
of these men, my current BF was the only one i really waited to have sex with... we had been seeing each other 3 months.
and i waited with him, cause i was testing out the wait theory....to see if it had anything to do with the longevity of the relationship. and in this case it has....but i also really liked him.
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Originally posted by tattoomytoe
of these men, my current BF was the only one i really waited to have sex with... we had been seeing each other 3 months.
and i waited with him, cause i was testing out the wait theory....to see if it had anything to do with the longevity of the relationship. and in this case it has....but i also really liked him.
the longer a couple waits to hop in the sack the longer their relationship will last. it is a generalization but true in many instances.
Originally posted by alphamale
the longer a couple waits to hop in the sack the longer their relationship will last. it is a generalization but true in many instances.
Woah, cool. I was making out with hot bouncer boy and I stopped him and told him I didn't want to have sex yet.
I have noticed with guys I really like, I try to wait.
Since a lot of girls wait to have sex if it's a guy they really like, do you think it's the same for men? Say you're making out on the first or second date - if they asked for sex, does that mean they probably don't respect you or want a relationship with you? I had known this guy from out of town who was visiting for a short while. We never dated in the past, but on one occassion that he was in town, we hung out a coupld times and then ended up hooking up, and he wanted to have sex. We didn't at first, but I wonder if he just was into me only for sex or if he was rushing because of the circumstances, him being out of town and all.
With my current boyfriend, we've been friends for such a long time but I never had any idea he liked me, we went out on another "date" which I thought was just us hanging out again but we had our first kiss so I guess you could say it was on the first date? Then I said I love you after going out for 3, maybe 4 months. We had sex a few months after that and we're still going out. It'll be a year in Feburary-unbelievable!
1st BF- Kiss= 2 days Sex=10 months Love You= 1yr
2nd BF-Kiss= first date Sex= never Love You=never
3rd BF-Kiss= 1 week Sex= 6 months Love You=8 months
4th BF= Kiss=??? Sex= 5 months Love You= 5 months
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