[Cheeto]

It might be mid-life crisis. Here are my issues with the marriage from the top:
1. Her constant anger at our son, me, or whoever happens to be in crosswalk or looks her way without smiling.
2. She just lays around the house most of the day only to heap all her problems for the day on me when I get home.
3. Unless I am entertaining her she is bored.
4. Why is it that I can sit there and watch tv with her for hours but god forbid I sit there and read a book.
5. Because of her weight gaining it has become increasingly difficult to carry her on the back of my bike for rides. I don't have the heart to tell her she needs to lose 80+ lbs.

I would do counseling if I knew where to go and how it was going to be paid for. I am in a 5 person unit in the middle of the desert!

[Ladyjane14]

Originally posted by Cheeto
I would do counseling if I knew where to go and how it was going to be paid for. I am in a 5 person unit in the middle of the desert!

If you have medical health insurance, call the member services number on the insurance card. Some cards have a separate mental health services line. They can provide you with a summary of your benefits, and a list of providers in your area.

You might also consider seeing your medical doctor as well.

It's impossible to control the actions of other people. You can only control what you do.

Re-read Owl's last post. It is good advice.....and it's FREE!!!