I agree with this threads, I haven't read most of it. But reading the original post. Yes, I am really interested myself why ?
I always like Western girls physically and mentally. But after years of looking and trying. The perception I received was that I was too darn ugly for them.
Hi I'm extremely shallow and had always been told Chinese/Japanese guys were not well endowed. I have yet to find out if this is true. I have never been approached by an asian man, the ones I have met were quiet and business-man looking. Perhaps I'm intimidated by them I dunno. Since I moved away from CA I really haven't had much contact with any. I'd certainly have trepidation as to whether or not their family would think I measured up. They seem to have a very strong family unit and that is intimidating to me also. So many to please/impress! That's my shallowness in a bottle, you're welcome.
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Hmmm.. Well I won't say there isn't any asian guys that are attractive, I will say that the ones I've come across while very polite and usually always friendly.. the physical appearance just doesn't do it for me.. thin and "fragile" looking..
My boyfriend is Spanish.. and IMHO absolutley gorgeous
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Well there's nothing "wrong" with asian men. There's attractive men, and not so attractive in all races. If you're good looking then what girl wouldn't want to date you of course it's not all about looks, unless that's what you want. If you're not that good looking then you'll probably find it more difficult doesn't matter what your race is. Not all asian men are short, thin and fragile looking, so don't generalize. I've seen lots of tall asian guys. And that thing about not being well endowed that's not true another stereotype. All races have small, big etc. I do know there are white and black girls that prefer asian men. I've seen quite a few. Believe it or not some exclusively only date asians. Everyone has their preferences. I think most asian guys tho prefer to date just asians or you'd see much more AM/non-asian female couples. But I do get the impression that this is changing.
Btw the fathers of keanu reeves, russell wong, brandon lee, dean cain just to name a few are asian and look how they turned out. All quite good looking. Asian mixed offspring do seem to look predominantly "asian", not always of course..Giving them that exotic look. Anyway my opinion is that YES there are girls that find asian men attractive.
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Frankly people, I am tired of hearing about these Asian guys especially those yellow and squeaky eyes ones. Have your all forgotten Asia is huge and not all of use have such looks. What about guys from Indonesia + Island (bali) / Malaysia / Philippines and Borneo. I am sure they look much more attractive then these yellow birds. Will you white girls date anyone from these countries???? They are tan, tall (not all but mostly) and yummy to take to the beach, especially those mixed ones.
ok what is short anyways lol. i am 5 7 8 is that ok and i am AM .
oh ya some asian girls don't even date AM take that. yea. some are like white washed by the media-especially the ones raised in american ...
oh ya to the guy that said no AF goes with WM lol -seen a lot of that in vancouver
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oh ya some asian girls don't even date AM take that. yea. some are like white washed by the media-especially the ones raised in american ...
That attitude right there is why some Asian women won't date Asian men. I found when I dated Asian men that the majority of them had a chip on their shoulder. And they felt like they owned Asian women, like "How dare she go out with someone who isn't Asian!" I've even had one guy explain to me that they see Asian women as rightfully theirs and therefore it's beyond wrong for an Asian woman to date outside the race. But to answer the original question. My husband is white and his sister is marrying a Chinese man. She has, in the past, dated other Asian races too.
Dark Hair and gorgeous brown eyes are lovely, just as long as he is taller than me then that is great...Too tall makes kissing difficult. I am dating a American/Korean,,,,,georgous.....................
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That attitude right there is why some Asian women won't date Asian men. I found when I dated Asian men that the majority of them had a chip on their shoulder. And they felt like they owned Asian women, like "How dare she go out with someone who isn't Asian!" I've even had one guy explain to me that they see Asian women as rightfully theirs and therefore it's beyond wrong for an Asian woman to date outside the race. But to answer the original question. My husband is white and his sister is marrying a Chinese man. She has, in the past, dated other Asian races too.
I find Asian absolutely sexy! But I would have to somewhat agree on your statement. I have heard this from some Asian women I have met. Many Asian men tend to be too controlling and domineering. With non-Asian men they tend to have a little more freedom in some aspects. As for myself, being a strong, Black woman, I am used to dealing with strong men. So, I can handle my own. But I've always loved a challenge!
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