[jmsdmom]

My husband told me in January that he had been having an affair and that the OW was pregnant. Since then, I moved 4 hours away to protect my children from the situation. He has come out to see us every weekend and calls several times daily. He tells me almost every day how sorry he is for hurting me and the kids. He says he wants to reconcile and move out here with me and my kids. The baby is due any day, and I need to know what is going to happen with him and this woman after the baby comes before I let him come out here. He says he has no feeling for this woman, but I need to know post-baby.

I have never in my life stayed with any boyfriend that cheated on me, but this seems so different. My kids have such a great relationship with their dad.

Is it possible that he truly is sorry and has learned his lesson? Am I crazy for wanting to save my marriage after this? Can it work? Are there any other women out there that have gone through this and your marriage survived?