I don't respond to goads at all. You have a browser. You can access Google. Try 'male' and 'images'. Toss in various sexual terms. Have fun!
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Originally posted by moimeme
I don't respond to goads at all. You have a browser. You can access Google. Try 'male' and 'images'. Toss in various sexual terms. Have fun!
Been there, did that, done that. Incidentally, I've seen you provide plenty of links on this forum for other things. In fact, I've seen many a thread you generated that were based on a link alone.
For some reason, providing this thread with a link is a problem...hmmmmm
Originally posted by moimeme
Thanks, but no. I'll find you links for all sorts of other stuff, but in this, you're on your own. A gal's gotta have a few secrets to herself.
I think, even if subconsciously, a woman checks out a man with the assessment of if she could have a relationship with him....as opposed to WOO HOO let's masterbate. UNLIKE MEN!
Porn is one thing.....but looking at naked guys would NOT turn me on...even if it was someone I knew.
Originally posted by Arabess
I think, even if subconsciously, a woman checks out a man with the assessment of if she could have a relationship with him....as opposed to WOO HOO let's masterbate. UNLIKE MEN!
Porn is one thing.....but looking at naked guys would NOT turn me on...even if it was someone I knew.
People, this is my private life. What - want me to put a camera in my bedroom too? Jeez.
I think, even if subconsciously, a woman checks out a man with the assessment of if she could have a relationship with him....as opposed to WOO HOO let's masterbate. UNLIKE MEN!
Speak for yourself my lady
LOL! I second that!
People are all different. There's a great show called SexTV which is a weekly collection of mini-documentaries on sex. There are actually a bunch of documentary-type shows on Canadian TV and there have been several about women and porn and masturbation and all these issues.
Both you ladies are in your forties - attitudes and behaviours are changing.
Originally posted by moimeme
People, this is my private life. What - want me to put a camera in my bedroom too? Jeez.
Moi, we do not want the specific pics that you masterbate to...We just want a taste of these so called hot pictures of men that are out there on the net. I just ran a search on "male images" and nothing really came up. I Do not want to look at gay men, I cannot relate to that!! Call me crazy, but I want to look at a dude that wants women, not men. Are there such pictures out there?
Originally posted by moimeme I really think men are less shallow in the way they view women than the way they view each other
EXACTLY. I am starting to think that most women think very little of men and it's depressing.
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Sorry, we did get away on another tangent. Yes, many of the people complaining about porn have already attracted someone to them.
As for women thinking very little of men -- I've seen this all around me and all the time. I was told that men only want one thing and that none of them can be trusted. I was told that its part of being a woman --to get your heart broken by men who will 'visually cheat' and who will physically cheat. Therefore, I grew up with less respect for males than I should have had. My husband, aside from the verbal abuse and being told that women were object, was also told simply 'don't get one pregnant, but get as many as you can before you get tied down' and that was a pretty popular idiom.
I have had to learn to change my own view and learn to recognize that men do have feelings and emotional needs too, and that they really can love. But I did not give up my own morals in seeing hard-core pornography as something degrading to everyone involved. I understand curiosity and experimentation, but that goes out the window when commitment takes over and that is something that I insisted on in my relationships. I did find a man who felt about it as I do and has enough respect for me that he does not actively seek out pornography. He's not going to turn his head if its in front of him though!
A lot of things I've seen on TV seem very disrespectful of men in general and does not give men as a whole, credit for sensitivity and honest emotional feelings. Men learned a long time ago that crying is a good tool to get some sex and now we can't always distinguish the difference between honest sentiment and sensitivity as a tool. I think a lot of men are confused as to their roles too.
I had several poems published in a women's magazine back in the 1970's. One of the poems ended with the line "toil not with his heart, for it breaks as easily as your own" A lot of people tend to forget that.
You will find a lot of images of men at gay sites. Doesn't mean the men are gay; tons of straight men make a lot of money posing for mens' sites. If you just want pictures of nude men by themselves not doing anything, that's often the best place to find them. You can also try the International Male catalogue website and men's swimsuit and underwear catalogue websites but of course the guys have some garments on, though some are, admittedly, quite skimpy.
I had several poems published in a women's magazine back in the 1970's. One of the poems ended with the line "toil not with his heart, for it breaks as easily as your own" A lot of people tend to forget that.
Beautiful, Hokey, and I think you are 100% correct in what you've said about men and feelings. We are heading for a threadworthy tangent, but I truly think a lot of women don't really believe men have feelings other than lust And this is horribly degrading to men.
Besides, all I asked for was a link to a website for MALE pornography (you said that it's out there, and I'm asking where????), and so why is that such an infringement on you? Why is that a personal thing? What does that have to do with the LS becoming an audience to you masterbating?
Porn is a tool of masturbation, like a vibrator, there is no emotional attachment, it just is an aid, when i watch porn i am not thinking about wanting to be the women, just thinking about a girl i like doing it to me.
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And this is horribly degrading to men.
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