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o, man, i do this. i've got a cute little superman ring with a real sapphire on my ring finger; it's pretty much the only jewelry i have ever worn. i've never even thought about it.
don't take it badly, boys, just ask the girls about it; we love it!
Originally posted by ladyangel
I'm with you on that one. I would personally be offended if my husband went out in public without his wedding ring on. And I'd feel naked if I wasn't wearing mine.
What if he works a blue collar job like a construction worker? =)
My dad never wears his wedding ring for that reason.
And then there are some married women who do not wear thier wedding rings anywhere on thier person for whatever reason. So when they do get hit on, they act as if they are the most available person alive. None of it makes sense to me. Just my short thought though.
I actually like your question because I always thought I was one of the rare people who wore a ring on my left hand. I like the feel of it. I will not wear a diamond ring on the left hand, but any stone with diamonds I will. I am aware if I wear the diamond ones it could be mistaken. I just like wearing my ring with my bracelet and my braclets all stay on my left hand. My right hand has my watch and sometimes I wear a ring on that hand as well, but not always.
Re: women who are not married wearing a ring on the left ring finger
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Originally posted by Darkangelism
I find it annoying because I always look b4 approaching a girl and some girls are single but wear a ring and that keeps me away.
Dude - You must be afraid of getting shot down out of rejection, because she is involved. Don't let it keep you away. All you gotta do is ask. Sometimes, even the married ones will take you home with them.
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I wore a ring there after my divorce from my 1st husband.. because after the the marriage ended, my hand felt "naked" .. So I wore a garnet ring that my oldest brother had given me when I was a teenager (first piece of "real" jewelry I ever owned). It was obviously not a wedding ring/band.. and it never kept men from approaching me.
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I wear a ring on my left hand, it was my great-grandmothers so it means a lot to me. It doesn't look like a traditional engagement or wedding ring at all, it's blue topaz stones with tiny diamonds set in gold. It's very beautiful and I love it so much that I wear it every day. Even though it doesn't look like an engagement ring, I know it's discouraged a few people from coming up to me but it never hurts to ask a girl about the ring she's wearing on her left hand...
I must admit that I wear a ring on my left hand. It actully does look like an engagement ring, but it's not, it's a promise ring that was given to me by my first Bf. I still wear it because it is beautiful and sometimes when I go out I just don't want to be approached (doesn't really work though).
I wear my Grandma's wedding ring on my left hand and seriously - I never thought if that is annoying to anyone because....I so don't bother.
Where does humanity end up if all has to be thought about and analyzed...God gave us a fantastic tool: speech.
So if a guy being interested is not able to ask, well, sorry for him.
I might say anyway, that I am unaccessable as taken.
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