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I think what everyone has said here makes sense. You told him that you are not going to move in, and he hang up on you....you left a message in his car, and you are scared to call him....you also say that he thinks he is punishing you by not calling you. What I see here is a man who is selfish. He will probably not call you soon. But, if you don't call him, you will have done one thing...dis-empower him and his tactics. My advice is; don't call him....wait, I know it hurts, but just wait. He is most likely going to call you before the middle of this week because if you don't call, he will grow impatient and nervous. This guy seems to be a typical attention seeker, based on what you have said about him. Therefore silence will kill him....especially when he thinks that the intended pain on you by his silence is not working.
The more you call him or leave messages, the more you feet his ego and the more he will bask in the glory of being sort after. So just keep cool, and wait for him to call, then tell him how uncomfortable you are about the whole thing, and how you feel you made a mistake. Apeal to his emotions by asking him if he wanted you to be happy, wouldn't he take a minute to think about your emotional state now? You go on to suggest the divorce thing. He will probably get mad, yell at you, but finally he will beg you not to. You will probably see his weaker side....and he might go on his knees to beg you not to. But remember, DO NOT let your emotions reign in this, but let rationality take charge and stand firm. Good luck!
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