[Vivid_29]

Originally posted by moimeme
You'll eventually fall for me, darling!!!

Funny thing about me. The more someone insists I will do their bidding or follow their wishes, the less likely I will be to do so. I guess some women find that powerful or masterful or something. I'm not one.

You think that I haven't figured that out about you, yet, my headstrong wahine?

~V

[jenny]

i'm just obtuse about this, i think. i've posted this before, but bad boys are great for friends - you learn all sorts of interesting things from them. i truly love my bad boy friends. platonically. i've messed around only with one of them, once, but i knew he was nowhere near relationship material.

maybe i just don't understand the desire to convert in general; it seems so disrespectful, or intrusive. and pointless. if they're bad, enjoy them. hang out with them. even bed them if the fancy takes you. but don't let them in your mental space: bad boys are for breakfast, not dinner. period.

i watch my friends get shattered over these guys and it just bewilders me. certainly it is possible they guys might change; winning the lottery is also possible. it seems to me they sacrifice their own dignity, time, and pleasure for hope of an eventual unlikely payoff. and they will not learn! some of them have been hurt by even the same bad boy like 4 times and they go back for more.

i' m stupid about this stuff, so they just seem illogical to me - like a particularly odious and destructive case of slothful induction. but, educate me. what is happening emotionally? are they insecure? did their fathers not make them the center of their worlds?

[Duke]

I have no comment here because I've always been such a good boy.

[lostforwords]

I dated one bad boy and chalked it up as a learning experience..... he was fun.... he was great..... it was a blast..... dont regret him one bit..... however he was just a good time boy..... did i want to change him or attempt to? Never!!! thats what made it so great.... however there were just things i wouldnt tolerate.... he knew my lines i knew his lines..... we both just got out of crappy relationships..... and we were soooo bad for eachother it was good! if that makes any sense.... lol.... would i ever date a bad boy again? Never...... I only needed that one time experience...... i always said when i dated him..... he will be the first and last bad boy i would ever date...... when we started dating.... everyone and thier dog would tell me to be careful, why you with him? who cares..... i needed that at that time.....