[Sunshin]

Hi everyone,

Please give me your opinion on this lettter, which will help me out of the sadness in my life live right...... :'(

"I am sorry for being silent this week. Sometimes I just have to be alone, to think things over. There are a lot of things that are worrying me these days. I think I needed to be quiet and thoughtful.

You are right, I do care about you very much. But, I think a relationship is not like a light bulb; it can't be turned on and off too many times. It is more like a fire, that might start up once or twice after you put it out. But, there is no guarantee that the fire will start again.

For the short time we were together, we went through a lot. We had many good times, and some rough times. I thought that a few times we were broken up. When I was out of town, I thought for sure that we would not get back together. When I came back, it surprised me that you wanted to see me. I thought it would be better to take it slowly; because it is very difficult to start things back up, once I think it is over. I didn't mean to seem cold and distant, I was just going slowly.

I am not upset at you or mad. There is no reason for me to be mad at you. If you followed what you thought was right, that is the best you could do. It is the best anyone can do. And, I am not jumping to dating someone else. I am still sad about us.

I am sorry if I have been difficult to understand. If it makes you feel better, I usually don't even understand myself. Like Pascal said, "The heart has it's reasons, that reason knows nothing of". I think both of us have much to learn from our hearts. To tell the truth, I have no idea what's in the future.

Well, I was a little sick today; so I am going to bed early. Take care of yourself."


What does the letter say in general -his feelings, thoughts, and what does he want now????

Please help me out. Thanks.