[d1410]

Vivid,

that's a good thought....I wish it were true. I wasn't into him just for sex and I only feel used because he never called at all after the fact.

I'm not heartbroken but mad that someone could be so callous with my feelings.

thanks for your thoughts tho. :-)

Arabess,

I know I should have waited to have sex with this guy...but he would have probably wined and dined me until I was ready to jump into the sack with him. Last year, a guy friend of mine pursued me for 9 months...he had a girlfriend at the time, so I stayed far away. When they broke up, we started dating but it soon fell apart (he ended up going back to his ex). I'm starting to question my judgement...why can't I see the signs clearly??

I know it's probably best not to contact this guy again (the one that recently ditched me) but he has my salad bowl...and while I can certainly live without it, it is the principle of it. he should have called me to at least say he'd return my bowl.

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Originally posted by d1410
I know, I know...we took it too fast but if he just wanted sex....why did he act like he was interested in a relationship???

Um, to get sex, sweetie ... it sucks, but it's true. It's one of the many ways men and women differ. I have a theory on this ... when men have sex, then enter our bodies, they conquer, they take. When women have sex, we allow them to enter us, and it's a whole different ballgame, with a wholely different set of emotions attached to it.

He honestly probably thinks nothing of it. He had a bit of fun, and that's it. Most men do not understand how we as women feel about that act, or what we must feel emotionally before we will even allow it to happen.

Sorry you got duped, but don't feel bad. It's happened to the best of us, (myself included!)

*hugs*