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Old 1st September 2003, 12:01 AM   #1
brunette4u
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Dating older guys???

I am a 20 year old female college student, i turn 21 in several months. I have always been told that I am pretty mature for my age. I have always looked older than I really am, and I tend to hang out with an older crowd. I have always dated guys several years older than me...not saying that it makes them mature, by all means, but ....
I was in a relationship for 2 years and just recently broke up...he was 1 year older than me and acted like 5 years younger than me. I am sick of immature guys. Here is my question...I met a wonderful guy. He is very handsome, tall, seems very nice and polite. He is also 30 years old. 10 years older than me. Is this normal, is it ok? He does not look "old"(not that 30 is old, by all means!!!) and he seems very fun to be around. Guys who are around 30+, would you date a woman who was 10 years younger than you? what would be some things that would hold you back? Would you feel intimidated or turned off, or does it strictly make no difference her age? Should I pursue him? Thanks!
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