[canadaguy98]

Ive had a string of bad luck with ladies lately. I never picked nutty ones until my ex-fiancee dumped me. Then I ended up with this married chick that lied about being married, lied about being on the contraceptive shot, hooked me in and then when I was distancing myself from her decided to drop false assault charges. Then I met this amazing girl who was truly magical, well she seemed magical but turned out she lied to me about everything about herself including her nationality, job, even her name. Broke up with that one she nearly killed me left a wine bottle full of bleach in the fridge for me to try out when I was cleaning up the disaster she left behind.

Well I met this really nice girl... god. She is quite nice but she's really intense. I've been seeing her for like 6 weeks now. I have had such horrible luck that I've been really adamant that we take it SLOWLY. She wants to spend a huge amount of time with me, she calls me on all her breaks from work and will leave from visiting me and then want to talk on the phone the moment she gets home and is already missing me and pouting how she misses me so.

After the initial intense euphoria I have tried to tell her yes I like you a lot but lets take it slow, live in seperate spaces get our own time to do our own things. Now its like pulling a grilled cheese sandwich apart - messy as hell.

Like I have a job interview so I go to it and then go near her work for when she gets off and kill a half hour in the mall to meet up with her for lunch, drive around with her then have lunch then come here to my place and hang out, then she goes off to do some errands and asks if she can come back after, I'm cool with that then she crashes here and hanky panky ensues I cuddle with her and have coffee with her in the morning and she wants to go shopping. I have work to do (I work from home) and she says its ok if I dont want to go so I say yeah go out do your thing I'll get some work done and then maybe we can hook up later. She gets home and calls me with this whole thing how we never do anything together and I only want to spend time with her when it's convenient for me and all this crap. I just wanted to get some work done its Wednesday mid-day and didnt want to go shopping. I figured we'd hook up again later in the day...

Now she's like well fine we wont talk tonight then. All icy, shes saying things like, "fine you want to take things slow then lets take them slow we can see eachother like once a week since you dont like to spend time with me". I'm like whoa girl, I just spent the morning until 11am with you and last night cuddling with you and yesterday afternoon with you from 2 -4 you got back at 8... Its not that I dont like spending time with you but I have some of my own things to do this is my job.

And like last weekend I kind of backed away because she lured me to her house but she had to work at 6am and said that she'd drop me off at home afterwards but then things took longer and longer then she said why dont I stay so I stayed but then it was Sunday and I had to take a cab home because the transit system wasnt working and because of the time change we ended up leaving an hour early. Then we hooked up at 3pm the next day and hung out did laundry and stuff then went back to her house ... again she was going to drop me off before the night finished and then wanted me to stay again... I was like whoa now I just spent last night here and you have to work at 6am again tomorrow and I have cats who havent been fed and need to be looked after, she got all pissy and was like "fine I guess I'll never ask you if you want to stay over again" and again I was like "whoa girl I just stayed here last night I like staying over sometimes but I do have responsibilities I need to look after and the plan wasnt that I was going to stay over again tonight maybe another night when you dont have to work at 6am"

What the heck do I do with this girl!?!?! I like her she is really nice and kind but so super thin skinned sensitive it's like say no to her once and she snaps back in this dichotomous way. I've been through a BPD girlfriend before and a bi-polar so I know that no matter what I need to hold my ground no matter how healthy someone is I cant just give in to her every whim because she gets upset. Of course you have to humor a girl sometimes thats part of the way women are...

She is also complaining that we dont have much to talk about on the phone anymore.. I'm like whoa girl well we talk on the phone every hour when your at work then I see you then we part and then we talk on the phone until we go to sleep we're just running out of things to talk about because we're together all the time or talking on the phone. I like talking to you and everything but we need something to happen on our own so we can share things with eachother.

Its like when we talk we're constantly talking about either how much she misses me and wishes she was with me and how much she loves me or we're talking about her ex-boyfriend's latest antics calling her leaving her nasty messages accusing her of ****.

Again she is really nice as a girl i quite like her or I wouldn't be spending so much time with her in the first place.. But i need to have my own life a bit maybe sleep at home alone once in a while or chill out and have some "me time" once in a while; thats not so bad !

garrgh