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we just bought a new car sat. while cleaning out the old car, i found a doctors note with nonoxynol-9 on the paper, asked my husband what is this, he didn't know, i looked it up on the net and was shocked! its to keep you from having babies, he as been fixed for over 13 yrs and i had a hist. done 8yrs ago. he tried to blame it on my oldest daughter that is married with child and on birthcontol, tried to blame me for it, acting very weird about the whole thing, saying he didn't know where it came from, then he said i wrote it for my daughter. the doctors sheet only has the initials of all doctors on it, so i looked up all the doctors in the office and they matched, he said it came from my daughters doctors office, he asked her and she didn't know anything about it. now he is trying to blame me for the note..should i go to the doctors office and ask them if the note came from is office? what would you do?
I imported a car from Japan once. Went to sell it a few years later and gave it a good cleaning, found a whole bunch of random japanese receipts in odd places.
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i was thinking the same thing, but if i ask them if the sheet was their and not ask about the writing, would they tell me?
Even if they did.. where will that get you? Frankly, I think something is up. But other then the usual p.i. stuff that is suggested on here, I don't know what to tell you.
Does the prescription have a recent date? How old is it?
Assuming it is your daughter's, is that a problem?
If it is really your husband's, then what are you afraid of? Do you suspect him of anything?
I am wondering why the big concern. Are you wondering why he seems evasive about it?
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What is a doctor's note ?.. do you mean a prescription ?
nonoxynol-9 is also the spermicide they put inside of condoms and is also the spermicide you use for other types of birth control.
Honestly.. no way in hell would a guy have that written down on paper..
It sounds like something your daughters gyno gave it to her to remind her to use a birth control with nonoxynol-9 in it if she bought any from the store or a scipt if she was using another barrier method of birth control.
Some barrier methods require nonoxynol-9 as well to be used before sex.
He is being slightly evasive because by the sounds of it you have already pinned him cheating on you becuase of that note..
He probably feels he is a damned if he does damed if he doesn't position.
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You have had problems with trusting him in the past. About a year ago, you found sites for massage places near his work. And you were concerned about a blond coworker who called the house.
So your concern is that this note indicates that he is cheating? (Hence posting it in the Cheating forum...now I notice.)
Wait... I'm confused... I thought it was a prescription.
I wasn't able to figure it out from the OP.. a script already has the doctors office info and DR's signature and she mentioned that she didn't know where it came from... so it sounds like it isn't a script.
I wasn't able to figure it out from the OP.. a script already has the doctors office info and DR's signature and she mentioned that she didn't know where it came from... so it sounds like it isn't a script.
more details, the note was in my husbands old car and was put into the new car and while looking for the registration to the old car i found the note. from the doctors office.. the only thing on it was nonoxgnal-9, today i went to my husbands doctors office to see if it came from that office, because he had been blaming my oldest daughter for the note... and yes!!! it did come from his doctors office, it was a note pad that they use to write info to anyone, they told me it maybe that the doctor or nurse wrote it down.. they do this for over the counter meds.. the only reason i went to the doctors office is because he said it was not from his doctor but from my daughters. my daughter said she had never seen that note and that she felt that her dad was trying talk her into tell me that it was hers, she uses the health department for alll needs, and never seen that ever...and my husband uses a doctor that is out of our town 40 miles away and my daughter and i use doctors in our town just minutes away.
the ladies at the doctors office was very nice and also showed me the pad that they use, it was the same. i don't know what to think about this whole thing and yes i feel i have condemned him without finding out that this could be used for something other than sex.
also my daughter has not been in his car in over a year or so and i know for a fact that his car had been cleaned out many times this year. it was in his glove compartment. with many other important papers.
the only reason i went to the doctors office is because he said it was not from his doctor but from my daughters. my daughter said she had never seen that note and that she felt that her dad was trying talk her into tell me that it was hers, she uses the health department for alll needs, and never seen that ever...
Uh, red flag...
According to wikipedia, Gillette used to put it in their shaving creams as a surfactant, but doesn't any more.
Really, what else would a doctor be writing it down for?
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