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Old 4th November 2009, 5:22 PM   #1
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Mistake 1: They try to get the girl interested in them

Mistake 2: They focus too much on trying to say the right thing to impress the girl.

Mistake 3: They underestimate their own value while overestimating the girl’s value. They don’t think they’re good enough to attract really hot women

Mistake 4: They think that once they get the girl, everything will be ok. They will finally be happy and their life will no longer be boring

Mistake 5: They act indecisive instead of making a decision and leading the girl properly

Mistake 6: They hesitate and try to look for signals before approaching a girl or before asking her out

Mistake 7: They’re are too sexually timid and they misunderstand the sexual nature of women.
Self confidence fixes 7 of those 7 mistakes.

I don't think it is really about shyness as much as someone who has low self confidence.

I'm generally shy.. but I never really had any problems with having women in my life to date..
With me I learned to work around my shyness by putting my humor more in the forefront of showing a person who I was in the beginning.
Show a woman you are funny and you will get a date.. the reason is simple..
She knows if she goes out with a funny humorous guy that she will have fun and dating is about having fun...
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Old 5th November 2009, 3:21 AM   #2
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