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Old 5th November 2009, 2:38 AM   #1
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1-2x a day would be the maximum I'd be able to physically handle before I start shooting blanks, to be honest :P
Well 1-2 times a day is enough for me if I like the guy for reasons other than sex. But I need my morning sex if I sleep over my boyfriend's house, like a coffee addict needs their morning shot of espresso.
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Old 5th November 2009, 2:43 AM   #2
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Well 1-2 times a day is enough for me if I like the guy for reasons other than sex. But I need my morning sex if I sleep over my boyfriend's house, like a coffee addict needs their morning shot of espresso.
Do you need penetration sex or oral/fingering is ok
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Old 5th November 2009, 2:55 AM   #3
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AG, you are absolutely not a "nympho". You are a woman who likes sex, big difference. What you really need is not more sex but to get over yourself and learn to handle these issues with maturity. News Flash.......it's NOT all about you!!
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Old 5th November 2009, 5:06 AM   #4
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Do you need penetration sex or oral/fingering is ok
Either one works for me.... and boldjack what's with all the hostility?
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Old 5th November 2009, 2:16 PM   #5
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Well 1-2 times a day is enough for me if I like the guy for reasons other than sex. But I need my morning sex if I sleep over my boyfriend's house, like a coffee addict needs their morning shot of espresso.
Gee, I dont exactly have a wide range of experience, but I'd think everyday (especially at the start of a relationship) isn't really an 'incredibly high sex drive'!

Some of the responses here are just nuts, seriously. A woman with a high sex drive is gonna cheat? A woman with a high sex drive is gonna use sex as a tool for manipulation? A woman with a high sex drive is a fantasy (or has bipolar disorder)???

A woman with a high sex drive is nothing more or less than a man with a high sex drive... she just enjoys sex, and should preferably find someone with at least a reasonably high drive as well! And as for you guys who think that your girls will cheat if they have a higher sex drive than you... well, lets hope you find a girl with exactly the SAME sex drive, else YOU might cheat if you've a higher sex drive than her, eh?
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Old 5th November 2009, 2:24 PM   #6
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A woman with a high sex drive is nothing more or less than a man with a high sex drive... she just enjoys sex, and should preferably find someone with at least a reasonably high drive as well! And as for you guys who think that your girls will cheat if they have a higher sex drive than you... well, lets hope you find a girl with exactly the SAME sex drive, else YOU might cheat if you've a higher sex drive than her, eh?
I'm telling you from experience... that is not always the case!

My XW had a very high sex drive, until we got married.

If you run across a woman with a high sex drive, you need to ask yourself why. Some like you say just enjoy sex... but I don't think that is the most common reason.
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Old 5th November 2009, 3:33 PM   #7
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Gee, I dont exactly have a wide range of experience, but I'd think everyday (especially at the start of a relationship) isn't really an 'incredibly high sex drive'!

Some of the responses here are just nuts, seriously. A woman with a high sex drive is gonna cheat? A woman with a high sex drive is gonna use sex as a tool for manipulation? A woman with a high sex drive is a fantasy (or has bipolar disorder)???

A woman with a high sex drive is nothing more or less than a man with a high sex drive... she just enjoys sex, and should preferably find someone with at least a reasonably high drive as well! And as for you guys who think that your girls will cheat if they have a higher sex drive than you... well, lets hope you find a girl with exactly the SAME sex drive, else YOU might cheat if you've a higher sex drive than her, eh?
Haha Elsworth I said I can do with 1-2 times a day. At the beginning of a relationship I prefer sex whenever and wherever there is an opportunity for it. But after awhile it does somewhat decrease to 1-2 times a day, which according to my friends makes a guy less willing to work hard in a relationship (I don't understand their logic sometimes, but anyway...)

Also, I agree, if a woman has a high sex drive and a man isn't comfortable with that because his reasoning is that she will cheat, I'd personally steer clear of that man unless he's had some major issues with it in the past to warrant such thoughts. And even then, I'd take that as a slight sign that someone may have some insecurities about themselves and their ability to please their partner completely. Not saying any of the other posters are like that, but the idea would cross my mind.
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Old 5th November 2009, 7:32 PM   #8
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Some of the responses here are just nuts, seriously. A woman with a high sex drive is gonna cheat? A woman with a high sex drive is gonna use sex as a tool for manipulation? A woman with a high sex drive is a fantasy (or has bipolar disorder)???
Do you believe that there's a grain a truth in any one of these statements or are they totally without merit. If you believe in the former, then why are you calling them nuts. If you believe in the latter, then why?


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A woman with a high sex drive is nothing more or less than a man with a high sex drive...
That's assuming that men and women both approach and view sex in exactly the same way. This is not true, hence your statement is false. The sexes are different, the more we get that, the more we'll understand.

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she just enjoys sex, and should preferably find someone with at least a reasonably high drive as well!
This much I totally agree with. Compatibility is a bigin in the relationship world.

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And as for you guys who think that your girls will cheat if they have a higher sex drive than you... well, lets hope you find a girl with exactly the SAME sex drive, else YOU might cheat if you've a higher sex drive than her, eh?
.... and because the sexes are different, so too then, are the environments we operate in. Generally, women are more discriminant than men, sexually speaking, so it matters not the fact that men have higher sex drives because they are, to a large degree, regulated by women. The same can't be said the other way around.

But anyway, that's all beside the point. I would suggest that what most people, men especially really mean, is that the "likelihood" of cheating is greater for a higher sexed women than an average sexed women, not unlike the fact men are 'known' to cheat a little bit more than women. So, if the latter was true then it stands to reason that a women who basically acts like a man is viewed in the same way that men are.

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Old 5th November 2009, 6:55 AM   #9
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Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off?
It would have interested me once upon a time, before I found out that such types have a higher propensity towards emotional issues than average types - so I'll give them a miss thank you.

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Old 12th November 2009, 4:35 PM   #10
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Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off? Would you want to be in a LTR with her or just something short term, like a little fling?
Personally, I see this as a requirement for an LTR. Not the only requirement or most important one, but I would have a hard time in an LTR with a woman who didn't have a strong sex drive.

For short term this is great but not necesary.
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