Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off? Would you want to be in a LTR with her or just something short term, like a little fling?
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Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off? Would you want to be in a LTR with her or just something short term, like a little fling?
I like sex, dont get me wrong. But Im not one of those '3 times a day, everyday' kind of people. I honestly dont think most guys are.
Short term, it would be great to have someone that was 'ready to go' whenever you felt the urge.
Long term, as Booker pointed out, Id be awefully concerned that I wasnt going to be able to satisfy her needs day in and day out, and she would stray. At 28 I could probably keep up, but what about when we get older?
Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off? Would you want to be in a LTR with her or just something short term, like a little fling?
I'm perfectly fine with it so long as the girl is intelligent and committed to relationship fidelity. If I detect even a hint of sexual irresponsibility or discover a history of unfaithfulness, though, it's "see ya."
Of course, the latter condition would hold for any girl. So bring on the succubus with a heart of gold.
Depends on what you consider to be 'way above average' . I have a pretty high drive myself so it could be a very good thing. If we're compatible and get along in other ways it sounds great to me!
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Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off? Would you want to be in a LTR with her or just something short term, like a little fling?
Yes, absolutely but with the added caveat that ONLY if she feels that way about me. If she thinks about or acts on those feelings with other men then no. That's not cool.
All men want a nypho -- as long as they are only "nymphotic" for them.
Its nice to hear you girls enjoy sex...Some once a day or 3 times a day or all day. But do you really keep these numbers up 6-8months down the road with the same guy?...how about 2-3 years down the road? How bout 10 or 15 years?
Yes, but think of it this way: That reasoning actually implies a strong argument in favor of the "nympho" GF...
To wit, a girlfriend who wants sex three times a day will become a wife who still wants sex at least once a day even if her desire diminishes to a mere 1/3 its original strength.
Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off? Would you want to be in a LTR with her or just something short term, like a little fling?
What do you mean as 'incredibly high sex drive'?
Is she a real person or just an unrealistic fantasy?
IMHO it is too hard to meet a girl with high sex drive. Bipolar disorder has high sex drive but they are only 1.5% of population.
What do you mean as 'incredibly high sex drive'?
Is she a real person or just an unrealistic fantasy?
IMHO it is too hard to meet a girl with high sex drive. Bipolar disorder has high sex drive but they are only 1.5% of population.
Haha well I think it may be hard, but not impossible. The reason I'm asking this is because in both of my past 2 LTRs my boyfriends called me a nympho. Granted, they said it in a joking manner, but I was also told that my sex drive was above average for most women (I'm also realizing this when I talk to my friends who wonder what's wrong with me when I say I won't and can't use sex as a bargaining chip with my boyfriend). And Skump yes it does decrease with time. At the beginning I want sex with ONLY my partner all the time, and then after some time it decreases to wanting it about once a day, and so far so good. But I just wanted other guys' opinions on how they would feel about being with someone who was a "nympho".
Ok so I'm wondering what guys think of a girl who has an incredibly high sex drive (I mean way above average). Do you find it sexy, sometimes a turn off? Would you want to be in a LTR with her or just something short term, like a little fling?
LTR if: she's attractive and I like her other aspects
ST if: I just want to do her for a one-night
The bottom line for me is, between two identical girls I would pick the nympho over the normal one.
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. I have a pretty high drive myself so it could be a very good thing. If we're compatible and get along in other ways it sounds great to me!
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