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I think people here lied about my looks when I posted my pic, saying there wasn't anything wrong with me. When the most recent opinion I got of the pic was "gross!" (I didn't willingly show it, someone else did, I heard the response, from a girl).
I KNOW I am hideous and ugly, I just wish people would've come out and said what specific features I needed to fix. Is there any way to get the truth about your looks?
no one told you that you were gross, stop fishing for compliments. Be a man and have confidence in the cards that you were dealt. Tell that bitch shed be lucky to lay her grubby fingers on your chizled face.
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no one told you that you were gross, stop fishing for compliments. Be a man and have confidence in the cards that you were dealt. Tell that bitch shed be lucky to lay her grubby fingers on your chizled face.
I could see why you would think that, but I'm not fishing for compliments. I hate my "general" look, but I don't know specifically my needed changes.
I highly doubt people would be anything but honest when judging your looks over an internet forum. What is stopping you from being more attractive is your lack of confidence. You're attractive! Nobody is perfect, so don't strive to be a "perfect ten." Work on your self-esteem and it'll shine through, increasing your attractiveness.
Well if you're showing shirtless pictures to women who don't know you, that might have been the cause for her saying "gross". Some don't want to see shirtless men, when they don't know them.
I went back to your old thread and checked out your pics. You're fine.
If you're not attracting women, it's not because of your looks. What it might be, is difficult to know, without knowing you in real life. It could be body language, actions, your speech pattern, whatever.
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Well if you're showing shirtless pictures to women who don't know you, that might have been the cause for her saying "gross". Some don't want to see shirtless men, when they don't know them.
I went back to your old thread and checked out your pics. You're fine.
If you're not attracting women, it's not because of your looks. What it might be, is difficult to know, without knowing you in real life. It could be body language, actions, your speech pattern, whatever.
No, someone found the pic online (must've gotten around) and showed them that. Someone said it was found on a dating site with the "looking for men" thing checked, from what I gathered that was included in the pic, maybe that's what they were saying "gross!" about (it ended up on more than one person's cell phone I think). I know that sounds really weird, but I know some weird local people that would do that to someone.
Anyway, about your comments, well let me say that I am not aggressive with women at all. So I don't know if I attract them or not.
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I highly doubt people would be anything but honest when judging your looks over an internet forum. What is stopping you from being more attractive is your lack of confidence. You're attractive! Nobody is perfect, so don't strive to be a "perfect ten." Work on your self-esteem and it'll shine through, increasing your attractiveness.
I guess I just wanted to improve my appearance. Anyway, I appreciate your compliments. I'll try and work on my confidence.
PS, is there a way I can get that pic removed from my old thread? I don't feel comfortable with that being up anymore.
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If people are insulting your looks maybe you should just stop hanging around jerks!
Make him prove it with his actions.
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