[xMilliex]

Maybe you spend more time at work than being with the one you love?... this may cause them to feel alone and as if you're not even there.... just a guess though... or maybe you come across as an intimidating person... due to your successful career? and good looks? (usually people think that good looking guys / girls are players)... a majority of them are, but there's always the minority that get placed into the majority group ...¬.¬

[ntvinh986]

Originally Posted by Salamander

I have been going through a divorce and now am looking to meet someone fun. It has been 15 years of hell, but I maintained my positive attitude throughout.
I am considerate kind and caring. But for whatever reason, I cant seem to meet an interesting similar woman.

This is getting discouraging, and now that I am close to being free, I find myself becoming depressed. Unlike me in the least.

My work unfortunately keeps me moving and so I am not home very much. I am also very concerned about putting my personal information on a website that I cant control.


What am I doing wrong, any ideas, suggestions?

Thx

Hi guys, Im a newbie. Nice to join this forum.

[The Collector]

Originally Posted by Salamander

I am considerate kind and caring.

These are fine characteristics. More important when attracting women, especially at first, are being confident, charming, interesting, playful, and sexual. How do you score on those qualities?

[threebyfate]

Finding a truly compatible partner isn't that easy and if you're honest with yourself, you're still going through some heavy emotions from your soon-to-be divorce.

Give yourself time to properly heal, especially since you believe that you've gone through 15 years of hell. I'm going to throw down the gauntlet that all 15 years weren't hell. If they really were hell, you've got way, way bigger issues to address, than just going going through a divorce.