Oh, I thought that he was okay with everything except for feces and urine. Therefore I am under the impression that as long as the chick is hot he's ok with vomit, smacking, choking and a huge glass dildo up his ass.
Yes, that is my thinking as well.
I mean I understand a little S&M/bondage to spice things up, and even a little light smack on the ass, but some of these things described is just disturbing.
I read about a guy, that was in porn films years ago and still is, but he started out int hem, and as the years progressed and so did the porn industry he got into some heavy duty stuff. Such as the scat type of porn, and not only is in them but directs it. I guess "normal" porn just didn't cut it for him anymore.
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Being interested and being obsessed, are two different things. If it affects your view about the opposite gender, in general, then it's time to take a step backwards and take a deep breath.
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And I will ask again, how common is this type of porn? How often do yo usee a woman being abused and humilated in a porn for the pleasure of the man in it and the men watching it?
I have no idea how common this type of porn is, since I don't pay much attention to it.
Why are you asking me these questions, considering that I find this particular type of porn, revolting? I consider this kind of porn, fetish porn and don't tie it together with the regular porn.
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Such as the scat type of porn, and not only is in them but directs it. I guess "normal" porn just didn't cut it for him anymore.
That's not so far out of the norm. It's known that the affects of porn aren't as strong for poeple that watch it regularly and they need continued hieghted and graphic details to reach the same high. I suspect it's true for more men then we want to adm it to.
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Being interested and being obsessed, are two different things. If it affects your view about the opposite gender, in general, then it's time to take a step backwards and take a deep breath.
Why shouldn't it affect my view of the other gender where there is porn out there that men get off to that shows women being abused?
How common is this type of porn and what is the amount of men that are viewing it or are like the OP's boyfriend claiming that they don't really like it or do like it but hide it? I think these are logical and good questions to ask.
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I have no idea how common this type of porn is, since I don't pay much attention to it.
Why are you asking me these questions, considering that I find this particular type of porn, revolting? I consider this kind of porn, fetish porn and don't tie it together with the regular porn.
I wasn't asking you the question directly. I was asking the board. But it's been ignored several times by the one group that probably knows the most about it.
I really believe that women have the right to question, and wonde rwhat is going on in men's heads when there is porn out there described by the OP and how many men are infact turned on by it.
Nothing. It was a video I saw once and how it was being done. It wasn't just your typical banana insertion. There was peppers, limes, lemons and mangos, apples, tomatoes, involved. Can you say fruit salad?
I guess it wasn't so much the fruit as it was how it was being done.
Anyone can question anything. But, IMO, the only person that matters, is the one you're directly involved with. Everyone else is moot, when it comes to sexual preferences.
For the sake of argument, let's pretend that the average man is turned on by this kind of garbage. Why are you dating the average man? Date the man who's values closely match your own.
There was peppers, limes, lemons and mangos, apples, tomatoes, involved.
That sounds delicious, unless any of it went up someone's ass, then I'll pass
Jersey, I do not think that this porn is super common or main stream. I honestly do not think that most men get off on abusing, humiliating and hurting women.
I lived with 3 male room mates for 5 years. I knew all about the porn they watched and saw the things they had on DVD and on their computers. I am confident in the fact that they were good guys that would never abuse a woman. They just jacked off to porn sometimes.
My fiance is an amazing guy, I absolutely cherish him and he treats me like gold. He's not super in to porn but has some and I think he watches porn occasionally. I know that porn that is degrading to woman is not his thing.
I don't watch much porn, but when I do? Middle-aged amateurs where everybody is obviously having a good, unrehearsed/scripted good time. I can relate to it. Gagging? Not so much.
no, i don't like this kind of porn. when girls gag its awkward, and when guys act macho and dominate it really ****ing pisses me off.. kind of hate the attitude actually. but some guys do like that kind of stuff, and so long as they're insecure they will. but then, if a healthy couple told me they liked the titty smack thing i wouldn't judge, it would just not be my thing i guess. doesn't sound fun though..
i like the ones where like 20 different guys ejaculate in the girls mouth then she holds it all until the last guy finishes then she swirls all the cum around and swallows it.
i like the ones where like 20 different guys ejaculate in the girls mouth then she holds it all until the last guy finishes then she swirls all the cum around and swallows it.
Ahh Toe Jam. I detect an oral fixation from you! I bet you are like me. You enjoy Gay porn. Which, I do from time to time. Something about two hot men.....
And that is if they are convincing enough. I have seen some gay porn where the guy could barely get it up.
Anyho..I have not even heard of this " Gonzo Porn" nor have I seen it. I dont watch porn that often, though.
I know a guy who's into that sort of thing. While very drunk he admitted to a couple of us that he liked rough sex - he said he couldn't get turned on unless the woman was powerless, he liked to tie her up or hold her down so she couldn't move, and hold her by the throat and choke her until she passed out, which as far as I'm aware is a very dangerous practice. He also liked to shove himself down her throat until she gagged and puked - apparently the puking turned him on. In all other ways he seemed like a normal decent guy, he just seemed rather sadistic and unloving when it came to sex. He also had frequent one-night-stands, and refused to date women he really liked because he thought they deserved better, so I guess he must have had some idea that what he liked to do wasn't very nice. I found it slightly worrying that he had this sadistic streak, and it put me off being friends with him - thankfully he's a friend of a friend so he's not around much.
OP, what you said about your bf is a little worrying, because if he likes violent sex and watching women gag and vomit he perhaps won't be the most loving and tender of sexual/relationship partners. Please be careful; know where your limits are and don't be pushed into doing anything you don't want to do, don't copy what he watches in porn videos unless it's what you want too. Some of the more violent sexual practices can endanger your health and your life; if that's what someone's into then fair enough, but don't be pushed into doing something dangerous or upsetting just because he likes it. Personally I'd be completely put off dating a guy if he seemed to have a violent or sadistic streak, or enjoyed questionable or dangerous sexual practices.
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