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I was going to sit in the Art Building computer lab to get some work done, and I saw this guy that I had a huge crush on from last semester, sitting at the piano and singing. I did not say anything to him because he was talking to this guy from his class...I was sure he needed to concentrate. I tried to ignore his singing and put my headphones. He did see me walk in the room but I figured he would not talk to me because hasn't since this semester started, in Aug. 17th...
When he was done practicing, he got up from the piano and walked over to me, and let his figures slide down my arms, and gave me a hug, I was so surprised that I did not know how to react. I hurt my side trying to him a hug, lol.
I wanted to know, would he hug me if all this time he has not asked about me liking him, said hi to me when he passes me by around school or elsewhere on campus?
Im so confused...
A piano playing, singing guy that carresses your arm and then hugs you out of no where? VERY creepy...
He may be gay. If he's not gay, then he may be shy. Or just plain creepy.
If he hasn't really ever said anything to you and just greets you with a hug all the sudden, I just view that as strange.
As a guy, if I saw you and I liked you I would atleast talk to you. Going from no talk straight to touch would just be awkward and would make most girls feel unsafe.
This guy is either A) gay, B) shy and doesn't know what to do, C) thinks that you looking at him was a pass of some kind... or D) is just wierd.
Honestly it's probably a mix of all of the above... maybe not gay but feminine-ish.
Tony messaged me about a comment I wrote to you earlier. My message did not come out properly.
I write here to encourage people to reveal and release their problems. When I wrote to you I seriously exposed my foot shaped mouth.
I lecture at a College and would recommend that the bulk of your energies be channeled into study. Please engage socially but leave crushes aside for now. These can seriously debilitate your academic progress.
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For someone who never really spoke to you before, then all of a sudden rubs your arm with his fingers and hugs you out of the blue, is odd to me and pretty forward. It also could be he has liked you for awhile but just wasn't sure how to approach you, but I think the way he went about it wasn't right. He could have walked over and asked to sit down and you all could have started talking.
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OP, I hope you know all conversations aren't necessarily verbal. The brain of a musician is wired up a bit differently, and he likely has picked up on your 'crush'. Question is, what do you do now? What do you want?
OP, I hope you know all conversations aren't necessarily verbal. The brain of a musician is wired up a bit differently, and he likely has picked up on your 'crush'. Question is, what do you do now? What do you want?
Yeah, I kind of had the feeling that he knew, Im really intuitive. When I meet a guy who is like that, well I kind of chicken out What do you mean by "op"?
Tony messaged me about a comment I wrote to you earlier. My message did not come out properly.
I write here to encourage people to reveal and release their problems. When I wrote to you I seriously exposed my foot shaped mouth.
I lecture at a College and would recommend that the bulk of your energies be channeled into study. Please engage socially but leave crushes aside for now. These can seriously debilitate your academic progress.
No problem, when I write sometimes I write out exactly what I am thinking, you how the mind is not really in order (those choppy thoughts)...and I wanted to get my thoughts out. I did get a little excited while I was writing too.
Thank you so much for your advice, my academic coach told me that I should just hold out too...this is another reason why I never really pursued him. It was fine at first because I was getting over, he didnt really say anything to me.
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Why Would He Do This?
What do you mean by "op"?
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