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Has anyone struggled with getting over someone? It is like you just cant seem to make yourself give up.

I saw my ex at the club and we was nice to each other. He brought me a drink and danced a little. he went his way and I went mine. he called me when he left just to chit chat.

He has told me he doesnt want a relationship and I am finally not trying to change his mind even tho I still love him.

I want to be FRIENDS but i still want him as well. I dont want to force him to be with me or try to convince him to come back to me either. It is just weird.

How do I balance this relationship properly. I dont want to push him away but i dont want to purse him either. How do you do this?