LoveShack.org Community Forums

Reload this Page LoveShack.org Community Forums > Transitioning > In Search Of...

You people should do what I did


In Search Of... Having a hard time forming friendships or finding companions, lovers, or associates? Is someone pursuing an unwelcome relationship with you? Talk about your experiences here.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 26th September 2009, 5:23 PM   #1
Pink Cupcakes
Established Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 234
Yes, I have changed my thinking. At least it is keeping you from being the next George Sodini! So, the women of the world thank you for that!
Pink Cupcakes is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 3rd October 2009, 6:29 PM   #2
Devil Dog
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 12
Ill be the first to reply seriously.

You really need to see a therapist. It seems to me that you have suppressed feelings of anger toward women because of 1 from your past (generalization, much?). Anyway, your posts convinces me that you are disturbed, and should you be anything in person like you are on here, you probably drive away every female you meet.

You need help quick.
Devil Dog is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11th October 2009, 11:25 AM   #3
Disillusioned
Established Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: West Los Angeles
Posts: 138
Quote:
Originally Posted by Devil Dog View Post
Ill be the first to reply seriously.

You really need to see a therapist. It seems to me that you have suppressed feelings of anger toward women because of 1 from your past (generalization, much?). Anyway, your posts convinces me that you are disturbed, and should you be anything in person like you are on here, you probably drive away every female you meet.

You need help quick.
Dream on, 'cause I ain't gonna get it.

Women need therapy just as much, because they've set the bar unrealistically high. There are only so many rich guys on the market, a woman's chances of nabbing one are slimmer than 1 in 100. Years from now, there are going to be a lot of bitter old disappointed women in our country's nursing homes!
Disillusioned is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11th October 2009, 1:07 PM   #4
deux ex machina
Established Member
 
deux ex machina's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 717
I know you've found something better.

You don't have to rub it in.

It's getting cruel at this point.



You never used to be like this, so apathetic and indifferent.
__________________
Man is a credulous animal, and must believe something;
in the absence of good grounds for belief, he will be satisfied with bad ones.
deux ex machina is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 29th October 2009, 6:15 PM   #5
threebyfate
Member
 
threebyfate's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Formerly Trialbyfire
Posts: 540
Quote:
Originally Posted by deux ex machina View Post
I know you've found something better.

You don't have to rub it in.

It's getting cruel at this point.

You never used to be like this, so apathetic and indifferent.
There, there, don't be so hurt. He had to move on sometime and you must admit the two of you were incompatible, hence the break up and subsequent NC.

That he's found his dream girl, doesn't make you any less of a person. It's that his needs, didn't complement your needs.

Be grateful that it's over, sooner, rather than later. Imagine having children with him and then, having him leave you for this kind of woman.

((dem))
__________________
ETA for "Bump" June 8, 2010!
Gestating in a life-satisfying way.
threebyfate is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 30th October 2009, 2:35 PM   #6
deux ex machina
Established Member
 
deux ex machina's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 717
Quote:
Originally Posted by threebyfate View Post
There, there, don't be so hurt. He had to move on sometime and you must admit the two of you were incompatible, hence the break up and subsequent NC.

That he's found his dream girl, doesn't make you any less of a person. It's that his needs, didn't complement your needs.

Be grateful that it's over, sooner, rather than later. Imagine having children with him and then, having him leave you for this kind of woman.

((dem))

((tbf))

Thank you. I know, I know...

He has actually gone NC on all of the women in the world.

We must all grieve.

It's because I'm not good enough, I knew that once I talked, it was over.

His needs happen to include a woman who doesn't talk.

I knew it going in - big red flags were waving. This has become apparent in retrospect.

I hate his new woman.

I'm not jealous, either.

Last edited by deux ex machina; 30th October 2009 at 2:37 PM..
deux ex machina is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 28th October 2009, 9:37 AM   #7
Ross PK
Established Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Manchester, England, UK
Posts: 832
Quote:
Originally Posted by Disillusioned View Post
I take her out to restaurants in her wheelchair.
Hahhahaha, why I find that so funny?

On a more serious note, how come you don't want to screw her? Do you have a low sex drive?
Ross PK is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 29th October 2009, 10:54 AM   #8
In_Repair
Established Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 131
You bought a realdoll just for companionship?

Maybe YOU are the one who has set the bar too high, rather than women in general. Do you know how many REAL living women there are out there who just want a man who will be good to them?... and your ass is sitting all alone, treating a glorified sex toy like it's a princess.
In_Repair is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 29th October 2009, 5:20 PM   #9
Mary3
Established Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Nevada
Posts: 4,361
Cool

Quote:
Originally Posted by In_Repair View Post
You bought a realdoll just for companionship?

Maybe YOU are the one who has set the bar too high, rather than women in general. Do you know how many REAL living women there are out there who just want a man who will be good to them?... and your ass is sitting all alone, treating a glorified sex toy like it's a princess.
* Most * men who get the real doll are obese , very unattractive/smelly or socially retarded.

( Not to say OP is any of the above. )
__________________
"how do you gently break up with someone???..
Thats like saying how do I gently drive a monster truck through a china/glass/crystal shop.
__________________
Mary3 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 31st October 2009, 6:42 PM   #10
Disillusioned
Established Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: West Los Angeles
Posts: 138
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ross PK View Post
On a more serious note, how come you don't want to screw her? Do you have a low sex drive?
You say that like it's a bad thing. So what if I won't share it with women who aren't grateful?

No committment, no nookie, no exceptions.
Disillusioned is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 31st October 2009, 6:57 PM   #11
Ross PK
Established Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Manchester, England, UK
Posts: 832
Quote:
Originally Posted by Disillusioned View Post
You say that like it's a bad thing. So what if I won't share it with women who aren't grateful?

No committment, no nookie, no exceptions.
I'm not sure what you mean, I was asking how come you don't screw your realdoll. I don't think it's a bad thing, I was just curious.
Ross PK is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 31st October 2009, 9:29 PM   #12
Disillusioned
Established Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: West Los Angeles
Posts: 138
Sex just seems so cheapened... a pastime for the unintelligent. To this day I've never met a sexually active person who understands the meaning of brain sex (no, it's not a guy sticking his John Thomas into a woman's ear).

So if you don't understand it now, you never will.
Disillusioned is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 2nd November 2009, 9:23 AM   #13
In_Repair
Established Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 131
Alright, I get it now... I watched the movie "Lars and the real girl" this past weekend.

Good one. Had me going.
In_Repair is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

 
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Why do i never see people talk to people or ask out people they dont know? Brady_to_Moss In Search Of... 5 30th April 2009 3:23 AM
Are these people soulmates, just good friends or just people that share ideals Darkangelism Spirituality & Religious Beliefs 11 29th November 2005 3:59 PM

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 8:26 PM.

Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.


Copyright © 1997-2009 LoveShack.org. All Rights Reserved.