[Oh Moe]

Been dating each other for two years, all was perfect we love each other to death, still tell each other we do. Went to bed one night great, next morning wanted to break-up.
It's been a month, I cut of contact last Tuesday after getting mad at her for the first time ever, I told her **** if you don't love me tell me that and I'll disappear and she said I can't do that, because it's killing me her saying she loves me and misses me. Well she called Thursday, Friday and Sat., BUT she refuses to see me other then when we pass on the street, the one time I grabbed her and held her hand and she had watery eyes and drove away. If she sees me she's afraid she'll change her mind, the last time we were together we kissed and she made me leave saying get out of here before I change my mind that's how I know that. I don't want to contact her trying to give her time.
I've seen her around she works at a place I've stopping by for years now I've cut that out mostly now. I know she hasn't slept because she slipped and told me so the other day, she's lost so much weight she looks sickly and is physically looking it. We would go over each others house 4-5 times per week just to get good nights sleep because we would sleep so deep together. We only live about 2 miles from each other.
How long before I try pushing the issue of us again and how do I do it? Do two people who love each other as we do get back together?