[trippi1432]

Ok, haven't posted in a while, the past week had been agonizing, but progress made. My husband gave me an early birthday present and came home last night. We do think that this was a mild MLC, but luckily, no OW's....which is good since it would have definitely been over.

At any rate, we have made sincere promises to treat each other better. I think we both learned through this experience that we have to work together on this marriage and our love over time will change, but it doesn't mean the passion is dead. We are still going to see a MC together but I would attribute one session with a Divorce Busting Coach, the Save My Marriage e-book and learning more about mid-life crisis to very good resources for both learning how to keep the marriage intact as well as how to get through the bad times together. Going through these threads helped me find those resources and I am so thankful to all those who posted. I'm also going to educate myself more on OCD and how I can help my husband make life a little less overwhelming, thanks to OP3 for his post as well.