So what should i have done? i told him how i felt and he understood. Do you think i should just tell him to go out with his friends?
I think you should have told him that you totally understood that he needed time to be with his friends but that he also needs to understand that last minute plan changes aren't acceptable, from the aspect of respecting your time and prioritizing you as someone important in his life.
I think you should have told him that you totally understood that he needed time to be with his friends but that he also needs to understand that last minute plan changes aren't acceptable, from the aspect of respecting your time and prioritizing you as someone important in his life.
Yup, give him some space so he doesn't feel crowded.
It's easy for me to give you advice that's more middle of the road. I would personally have been a lot harsher, in that I would have given him some serious space, possibly permanent space. But then, that's just me and I'm fully willing to admit that if a relationship doesn't meet my needs, I'm gone.
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