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Old 21st June 2009, 2:40 AM   #1
WaveShifter
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Too old for this ****...

So, long story short, my mom is a paranoid schizophrenic. Never been treated or diagnosed, but I have done enough reading online- and she refuses treatment.

Anyway, 2 yrs ago my dad started an affair with a co-worker. And he told the OW about my mom's "problems". That prompted him to get a divorce 1 year ago, after 30 yrs of marriage.

What pisses me off- is my dad's gf (the same one he had an affair with). I am not bitter about the affair, I want him to be happy- but what the other woman is doing really upsets me. My mom is foreign, & she's still trying to learn computers/email & such. The OW (after given account information from my dad) has limited her AOL account to 1 minute of time a day. When the divorce was finalized, she called & left a voicemail on the house phone just laughing- because my dad had her cell phone shut off. Not only that, she would change her password multiple times a day, just to mess with her. I know this wasn't my mom being paranoid because I was present for it.

She has drove by the house a few times pressing the garage door opener, just to mess with her(Nothing can be done about this because my dad bought her out of the house & she has to move out in August). Calls her new cell # at least 7 times a day (*67) & says nothing. There's no proof cuz my mom's new cell is a minute phone & she doesn't get a bill for it.

I don't think this is right, and it upsets me, they are playing off her mental illness- & that's not okay. Oh & I have heard a bunch of voice mails from the gf saying "ha ha ha we are watching you" - just to make my mom even more paranoid.

I have stopped all communication with my dad, because he is giving his gf access to upset my mom, because she can play off her mental illness. That's bull**** & not fair, we are not talking about a character flaw- it's a mental illness!

God, this woman is 53 & my dad 55, yet I feel like I am in highschool- dealing with a bunch of immature brats.

Maybe this is a vent, no idea what to do since my dad won't talk to me anymore.
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