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Ugh *sniff* grr
I'm fed up of neeeveeer being chatted up or flirted with by guys. I'd like a relationship...but also even to just be made feel somewhat attractive by guys in bars etc.
(And I may be oldschool, but I do think they should be the initiators I have tried to do it in the past and felt I just came across as desperate...)
Also, I *know* I should just 'let it happen' because loves comes when you're not looking...but i've been not looking for quite a long time and it's gotten me nowhere!
Anywho, I've never really asked guys what are their first impressions of my looks (as that's what's so important for that vital wink lol!) and what it is about me that is apparently unattractive...
It's the eyes. I'm sure of it. I know there are ways of correcting that surgically, and there's a good chance insurance may cover it if it is actually a deformity.
Agree with the asymetry of the eyes, this will probably be the first thing people notice. Smile is nice.
Chunky? are you joking Liz she looks like a uk 10 or 12 tops , that aint chunky
Probably not chunky at all, it's that style of top which gives women the 'preggy look' that is adding phantom weight on.
Nice looking girl, beautiful skin, hair, smile, facial structure, except for the imbalanced eyes... usually beauty is associated with symmetry, so that could be initially off-putting, although I would think a good personality would counter-balance that....
In my opinion you appear to have a decent enough face to be much more attractive (dunno if the 2nd pic was a legit one ???) but you don't know what my standards are so I don't know how you can judge...
Why are you just willing to let things happen? Why don't you start talking to guys at bars and outside of them? It shows confidence and personality.
motive2002 thanks for the suggestion. Im not offended!!! Not sure i could quite go for it though. Though in the future I may move somewhere rather sunny so I'd have to wear big sunglasses alot or develop a very long shaggy fringe type 'do...
Shadowplay - thanks for the tip! He'll be googled!
Carhill....I'm 21
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I have tried to do it in the past and felt I just came across as desperate...)
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