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Old 20th June 2009, 7:22 PM   #16
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My grandfather lost his eye in Pearl Harbor (he was one of the original survivors). Since then he always wore a patch. I mean for 60+ years of his life... oh and glasses. His vision was ok, but I think he wanted to protect the one eye he had left so he always wore glasses.
I don't know if you've ever worn one, or considered one for cosmetic purposes. Daryll Hannah looked friggin hot in Kill Bill with an eye patch. I dunno, just thinking out loud. I hope you don't find it offensive.
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Old 20th June 2009, 7:23 PM   #17
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My grandfather lost his eye in Pearl Harbor (he was one of the original survivors). Since then he always wore a patch. I mean for 60+ years of his life... oh and glasses. His vision was ok, but I think he wanted to protect the one eye he had left so he always wore glasses.
I don't know if you've ever worn one, or considered one for cosmetic purposes. Daryll Hannah looked friggin hot in Kill Bill with an eye patch. I dunno, just thinking out loud. I hope you don't find it offensive.
men don't make passes at girls who wear patches
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Old 20th June 2009, 7:27 PM   #18
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men don't make passes at girls who wear patches
I would. Just don't listen to alphamale. Refer to my other post about Daryll Hannah
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Old 20th June 2009, 7:32 PM   #19
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men don't make passes at girls who wear patches
disagree, you might want to re-think the sword thing though
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Old 20th June 2009, 7:36 PM   #20
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I think you're a very pretty girl, and have a fabulous personality to boot.

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Old 20th June 2009, 7:37 PM   #21
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disagree, you might want to re-think the sword thing though
dude i'm not going out with a girl who's wearing an eye patch...all the guys will be like "arrrgh matey" and makeing other pirate jokes
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Old 20th June 2009, 7:41 PM   #22
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dude i'm not going out with a girl who's wearing an eye patch...all the guys will be like "arrrgh matey" and makeing other pirate jokes
What do you care about what other guys think?
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Old 20th June 2009, 7:44 PM   #23
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What do you care about what other guys think?
well i have an image to up hold...and plus i would feel weird going out with a girl wearing an eye patch. if she had a cast on her leg that would be ok i guess, or even if she was wearing a wig i wouldn't care. but the whole eye patch thing creeps me out. i don't know why.
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Old 20th June 2009, 7:50 PM   #24
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well i have an image to up hold...
LOL

I would date a hot girl with an eye patch and I don't care who says what. That's stupid. I mean, what happened if the love of your life wound up in a wheelchair? Would you kick her to the curb because of what the guys might say? I guess you and I are simply at different stages in life. I value people for what they can offer me, not for what they make me look like.
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Old 20th June 2009, 8:01 PM   #25
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LOL

what happened if the love of your life wound up in a wheelchair? Would you kick her to the curb because of what the guys might say? .
Youre asking Alpha male this? Of course he'd kick her to the curb.

He'd put a flag on the wheelchair, attach a chain to a passing semi, and scream Auf Wiedersehen.
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Old 20th June 2009, 8:10 PM   #26
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I admire your strength of character too, OP. You have to weigh the costs and benefits with surgery. If there's a potential for the improvement to be dramatic I would go for it. I used to advice people on plastic surgery as a side job, so I know a bit about the field. A doctor who would be great for this type of procedure is Dr. Michael Yaremchuk in Boston. Check him out if you haven't already. He's a plastic surgeon so he has more of an aesthetic eye, but he's done a lot of work on skeletal deformities -- particularly related to the eye area. Take a look at his site. Definitely shop around and don't listen to one doctor's opinion! That guy sounds like an arse.
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Old 20th June 2009, 8:12 PM   #27
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And err no I'm no troll!
That's what they all say. LOL
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Old 20th June 2009, 8:20 PM   #28
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I don't think you're a troll but I do think you're gutsy with a fine sense of humour!

You go!!
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Old 20th June 2009, 8:30 PM   #29
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D'ya like my avatar westernxer? Why so serious?

Trialbyfire, Jilly Bean, Wuggle & Anne..... Thank You!!!!

motive2002 thanks for the suggestion. Im not offended!!! Not sure i could quite go for it though. Though in the future I may move somewhere rather sunny so I'd have to wear big sunglasses alot or develop a very long shaggy fringe type 'do...

Shadowplay - thanks for the tip! He'll be googled!

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Old 20th June 2009, 8:50 PM   #30
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Here's the section of his site where he deals with cranial-orbital deformities.
http://www.dryaremchuk.com/english/c...s-surgery.html
I would guess he would build up your right eye socket with orbital rim implants to give your right eye more support. That's just my layman's guess, but book an appointment with him if you can.
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