[catcampy]

Mark - they don't know that he has a girlfriend. I'm trying really hard for this split to be amicable (although it's killing me) and I really didn't want to deal with telling me about HER (the who*e). I think he should be the one to do that. So, they just think Daddy is confused......They both live with me so I just have to try and not spill the beans in my frustration with him.

He wants to be "friends". You ask me - he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Before I found out about her, he wanted to be able to tell me that he loved me and still touch me whenever he felt like it. I was a fool and thought that would be okay. I'm glad I found out about her so I wouldn't allow that to continue.

If we can work out the child support issue, we'll be divorced pretty soon.

As much as I don't want a divorce, I don't want him to be here if he wants to be with HER or just doesn't want me.

Wow - enigma - thank you for the kind comments.

We are both children of divorced parents....I'm trying really hard not to be nasty like mine continue to be.....

[jessicakicksbut]

I am glad to see that you are using prayer to help you through this time, and are leaning to God. You may also want to get more involved in church activities, and meet other women who have went through difficulties like you are right now. It will be a big help right now to find others to pray with you, and to lean on during this rough time.

[markd]

Cat,
Wow, he's had a girlfriend for some time now, and at the same time is still intimate with you. I wonder if the (wh*re) knows that tidbit of information. (I shouldnt call her that, I dont know the first thing about her, I'm sure she is a perfectly lovely......umm...umm...ok wh*re) Was that a smile, my dear Cat? Anywhooo...
Have you talked to her/met her? Does she know her married boyfriend is still making house calls to his wife?

Cat....we need to grab a beer and talk.

Mark

[catcampy]

The girlfriend is in Louisville.......looking for someone to date?

[markd]

No thanks! I'm not really ready to date yet.
I've lived in Louisville for 35 years. I probably know her...this is such a big small town.

[memoree]

catcampy,
I know your pain. Had the same bomb thrown my way in Sept. I suspected him cheating. He said it was middle age crisis ( reason he was not interested in sex) Yeah middle age alright. She was a 31 year old WH**E. After our divorce he found out what she was, she dumped him for another married man. Then all the sudden he miracliously loves me again and wants me back. I hate him and I love him. BUT I DO NOT TRUST him and I don't think it will work because there is NO trust. I caught him once before and he swore to me he'd never ever cheat again that he made a really big mistake then the next year he's doing it.
I've been divorced since October 02. It's been hard since I have a 6 year old and the ex is pressuring me to come back. I want too but I don't want to. Make sense? We are friends for the sake of my son. BUT I so wanna take my anger out on him when I see him. He hurt me more than anyone ever has.......it's been 6 months and I'm no closer to getting over this than the day I found out.

[markd]

Hi Cat,
I haven't read any posts from you lately. How is everything going?
After reading your posts I realized that if your husband was 5 or6 hours from you....and he was in Louisville, then you are only 5 or 6 hours from me... Perhaps we should meet in the middle for coffee...or something harder! Lets see, 5/6 hours from louisville would put you at about...St Louis.or..Chicago.. or Columbus....I'm guessing from your use of good grammer not anywhere in the Virginia's!!....um, Atlanta, or Birmingham. Anywooo, if you'd like to chat in a more private medium, let me know. I'll send you an email or add you to my buddy list.
xMarkd

[catcampy]

The only thing I can say is that I talked to her today. She seems like a great person. I feel bad about degrading her character. *honestly*

We are almost to the end of the divorce. Just waiting on the settlement agreement to be finalized and then approved by the judge.

I'm worn out from all the drama of the past week (and months).

Cat