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Old 23rd April 2007, 9:53 PM   #31
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Oh I feel so happy now... it wont last long but Im having a "happy" moment!!
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Old 24th April 2007, 1:06 AM   #32
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Dear Ex,

Wow, how are you? It's great to hear from you. I see you've realized you're a fool, but come on, we all knew that would happen, didn't we? I mean, how can you find someone to measure up to someone you said treated you like a king and made you feel like a man? Someone you said you connected with and it was so easy. But yeah, the grass was always greener, wasn't it? Couldn't keep yourself away from the online dating sites, or talking to other women until the wee hours of the morning, just in case they turned out to be better. Well, guess what? They aren't. They aren't the problem. I wasn't the problem. You, are the problem. Nobody will ever measure up to what you expect, no person could. You'll never choose 1 person when you're so conflicted on how to feel because of whatever your issues are. You had a great thing, and passed it up. Now, you spend hours and hours online on a dating site. Was it worth it? Losing your best friend, your lover, in hopes of maybe doing better? Do you really think you even deserve better after how you treated me, and the one before me? You should be alone, and lonely, and realize that you did indeed have true love, but gave it away because you're too stupid to make a decision. Sure, you're book smart, but that wont keep you warm at night. Neither will lying on your profile to get women to meet you, saying you're 2 inches taller, because most women rule out men of your stature. I accepted you as you were. I loved you. You sh*t on me. I won't forget that.
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Old 24th April 2007, 1:14 AM   #33
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Dear Ariawoman's Ex:

Didn't I warn you of this at the mixer we met up at?

Didn't I tell you that you were a fool for passing up a woman who truly loved you?

As Fred Sanford would say, "Ya big dummy!"

But 5'3" aint big.

Sorry!

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Old 24th April 2007, 2:52 AM   #34
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Aww... thanks TP.


Ahhhhhhhh...
*text msg*
So guess what M I just found out you're dating again! That's great, I know I wouldn't have much of an impact on you... so the break-up was just something to hurt me by. Well you've achieved it. So this other girl I was told you commented about me. Okay, I feel sorry for her... you've always wondered what if you guys were together before... you can't keep to yourself can you?! You need some Fn girl attention... Get off that damn myspace and get a life.
I know you're not that great looking so you have to get a girl through the internet...
I hope one day you'll see what a stupid choice you've made. By the time you've realized I was the best you've ever had it would be damn to late.
So I hope you get some std...lol... you *******... bye.

- so I just found all this crap by a third party. And my heart feels as its burning with pain...
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Old 24th April 2007, 6:00 AM   #35
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If they break up with us, let them go, it is an act out of love

One night I had a weird dream, this dream keep me pretty much in right track.

A woman fall in love with a man. This man show some interest in her even liked her. But after a while he decided to leave her. then she became angry, to a point of madness, then she chased after him, and began to beat him. and shout "I love you, I love you". The man asked "then why do you beat me?" the woman answered "it is not about you, it is about ME, you hurt my ego!"

pretty weird dream but inspire
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Old 24th April 2007, 6:37 AM   #36
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Aria, i liked the qoute you had. Makes a lot of sense.
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Old 24th April 2007, 6:25 PM   #37
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more than 3 months into no contact and im still fighting urges to contact.
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Old 24th April 2007, 9:58 PM   #38
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I just wanna scream I HATE YOUR GUTS at him right now. Crap when will this rollercoaster ride end? I want off.
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Old 25th April 2007, 2:38 AM   #39
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I just want to say what a fantastic initiative this is. It will stop so many of us from making that mistake on contacting and let us get it off our chest at the same time thanks
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Old 25th April 2007, 3:22 PM   #40
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Is it wrong to wish an STD on the ex's ex???
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Old 25th April 2007, 6:07 PM   #41
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Is it wrong to wish an STD on the ex's ex???
You do know that there's currently a strain of gonorrhea that's resistant to penicillin, don't you? Just saying...
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Old 25th April 2007, 6:46 PM   #42
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Is it wrong to wish an STD on the ex's ex???

Hmm... Well I just wished an std on my ex. But an ex's ex... Maybe... so the ex's ex can give it to your ex??
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Old 25th April 2007, 7:18 PM   #43
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Well, no....not exactly. I just wish one on her because she's a conniving trailer trash ho. God, why does it make us feel better to just be mean sometimes??? Does that make me evil? lol

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Hmm... Well I just wished an std on my ex. But an ex's ex... Maybe... so the ex's ex can give it to your ex??
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Old 25th April 2007, 8:26 PM   #44
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evil but fun snooping... for R's new gf

Dear Ms.X, (new "gf" of R),

I noticed a ratty looking box in the basement. I opened it. It was obviously your stuff. There were all sorts of worn out cheap ugly cheesy clothes stuffed in there, nothing folded. I notice that you go from a size 2 to a size 10. Hmmm. That's bigger than me. Bet you have an eating disorder. But best of all, I found several bags of messy papers. I know it's not nice, but who cares. I looked through them.

Now I know that you go by two different last names. I know that you are 45 years old and that you don't have a permanent address. I know that you owe oodles on unpaid bills, judging from all the notices from collectors and lawyers, many from a month or so ago, to going back several years. I see you were in the local hospital and didn't pay your bill.

I know that you write awful corny poetry and that you've submitted it to third rate journals and been rejected. I know that you don't send in paperwork that you are supposed to fill out and that you don't always keep appointments, as I saw several reprimands. I also see that you have applied to several vocational schools, but either didn't get accepted or didn't go. Also saw that you have done a bunch of awful watercolors, and I have heard that you consider yourself an artist.

I saw that you have crashed on a bunch of guys' couches, as there are notes thanking them (but you kept the notes, for some reason). Also saw a note from some guy that he put all your stuff outside the door.

I also know that you told R over a week ago that you were going to visit him for a couple of days. Then you didn't call him for a week (I know because I asked him to let me know so I could take the dog while you were here). I made sure not to gloat when I asked about it and could see that he was bummed. Then you called again and said you'd visit maybe in a few days, maybe in a week. I wonder what you're up to? I'll bet he feels anxious over it.

Anyhow, it's obvious that you are a great repacement unit for me. Sounds like he will have some nice drama and excitement in his life, guess that was lacking when I was there all those years, the drama at least.

Good Luck to you both,
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Old 25th April 2007, 11:41 PM   #45
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Well, no....not exactly. I just wish one on her because she's a conniving trailer trash ho. God, why does it make us feel better to just be mean sometimes??? Does that make me evil? lol

lol... well women like that always end up having some sort of disease... she might already have the TTHD(trailer trash ho disease)...
Being mean is just a part of being human... you do it sooner or later.
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