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Old 6th November 2009, 6:35 AM   #2
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To be honest buddy I think your better off out of it. If your not right the way you are then you should not have to change for her. Relationships are about compromise and its a case of you both have to make them.

When I met my wife, I was sure as hell that I was going to be myself because in the past I have tried to change to be the right person for the woman I was with at the time, after a while I started resenting myself for it because I felt that all my feelings were being forced and when I actually looked inside myself they were.

Its better that you just be yourself in a relationship or you will regret it at a later date.

EDIT - I dont think this deserves to be in an abuse forum. Its not abuse.
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