ShareHer - Thank you for starting this thread and your articulate posts. My wife and I have both had other sex partners during our 12 year marriage. She likes to watch and sometimes participate (she's bi with the right woman); I sometimes watch, but always like knowing and hearing about her getting some variety.
In response to a previous comment, "I think it's safe to say most people would like to have the best of both worlds..." You replied, "Well, that's what I thought too when I originally started this thread. I asked the same question of women on a stay-at-home-moms site and got very different answers than here."
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dixieman quote:But my wife was incredibly turned on when I returned from being with the other woman. She was particularly turned on by the smell and performed oral.
Vivian quote: I'm not being judgemental about this but all I could think when I read this was just EWWWWWW!!!
All I can say is that from a man's point of view, I myself like the taste and smell, and my wife hints at bi tendancies so maybe that explains it. The motivator for her is the jealousy, it drove her crazy when she would set it up and send me out, but the satisfaction she got when I came home and she "reclaimed" me made it worthwhile for her. It will be interesting if we do find a woman that lets her watch - I don't think she could just sit there. But I do agree with you, if another man were to have my wife I wouldn't be interested in playing in it afterwards the way she wants to.
Originally posted by dixieman
dixieman quote:But my wife was incredibly turned on when I returned from being with the other woman. She was particularly turned on by the smell and performed oral.
Vivian quote: I'm not being judgemental about this but all I could think when I read this was just EWWWWWW!!!
All I can say is that from a man's point of view, I myself like the taste and smell, and my wife hints at bi tendancies so maybe that explains it. The motivator for her is the jealousy, it drove her crazy when she would set it up and send me out, but the satisfaction she got when I came home and she "reclaimed" me made it worthwhile for her. It will be interesting if we do find a woman that lets her watch - I don't think she could just sit there. But I do agree with you, if another man were to have my wife I wouldn't be interested in playing in it afterwards the way she wants to.
Okay...thanks for not being "put out" by my statement....after reading LS and this thread, I truly realize that people get turned on by soooo many different things, yours wasn't any over the top than others just being a female and apparently not bi-curious, it made me feel a little icky!
Have the guys who responded that they like their wives and gf to have sex with other men always been this way. How to I get my husband to be like this?
Originally posted by oannamarie
Have the guys who responded that they like their wives and gf to have sex with other men always been this way. How to I get my husband to be like this?
Are you serious? Do you seriously want your husband to be like that? because if you do I can tell you lol
Originally posted by Confissledone
Hey ShareHer, I just found out my girlfriend had sex with 2 guys during the past 2 nights. Just thought I'd give you and update of things.
Originally posted by oannamarie
Have the guys who responded that they like their wives and gf to have sex with other men always been this way. How to I get my husband to be like this?
Quite honestly, no, I haven't always been this way. I believe it happened somewhere in my mid-20's. Until then, I had been a standard issue jealous guy.
Well she told me in a cheesy way what she had done and she was kind of shy/nervous, yet she was happy about it. She admitted about being very easy with both of them, I guess she must've been turned on about it.
For the first guy it started when she got out of school, she was gonna walk home and some guy from school offered her a ride and she accepted but on the way home he decided to cruise for a little bit, and she says he put his hand on her leg and she was going to slap him but she was getting turned on and she decided to let him because she remembered my offer which she wasn't even considering...moments later she asked him if anyone was at his house, as he said no, she asked him to take her to his house. Once they were at his house he stripped her down and 'it' happened.
For the second guy, it happened when my girlfriend was hanging out at some old girlfriend's house and there was a couple of old girlfriends (this all was happening when I was at work). I guess her friends invited their boyfriends over and the boyfriends brought a friend, so my girlfriend and the other guy were the only ones that were left out, so one of her friends jokingly suggested that they have fun and thats where it all started, eventually when everyone was quiet just making out with their partner, he got all over her and was touching her all over and she told me in her own words "When he was on me, I remembered what you told me and what I could do, and I just let myself go" She told me that her friend let her use her room, once in the room she gave him a striptease and then gave him some. She said that she was in the room with him so long that her friends were all wondering how much longer they'd be in there. I guess they enjoyed it.
After she told me these two stories, I was shocked because when I told her my fantasy she was disgusted but I guess she's enjoying it. I'm not too sure but she mentioned that there might be one more guy coming up, and that's gonna be the limit, she's just planning on doing it with those 3 guys because she says she doesn't want to get feelings for any of them, that usually happens if you're only with one. The only one that she's gonna have feelings for is me. And the other 3 are just for fun.
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