I am at the divorce stage with my MM.
It has been 11 months since the seperation. We have been together for 3 1/2 years.. he is trying to get geared up for the actual divorce, but is terrified.
He doesn't want to talk about it with me, and gets very upset and defensive if I try to bring it up. I want to go to the lawyers with him to find out exactly what the procedure is but he seems not to want me to go. *sigh*..
I am trying to deal with it, its been a long hard road and I am wanting to get on with our lives and get this over with. I am sick of being a secret, not knowing his parents etc.. *double sigh*..
Is anyone else going though this, I need a friend in similar situation
I think that it will be roughly 2 - 3 more months until he tells her about me, and we are able to get on with things.
Then there is the whole issue of his children, and getting to know them, hoping they aren't going to hate my guts etc.
I am feeling anxious and worried, apprehensive.. I am supposed to move in after as well, we are fencing his yard for my dog and taking out the carpets etc (at his house) while we wait for the divorce.
I have not shared a bed (for actual sleeping) much before with anyone so I am worried how thats gonna go. lol. maybe seems stupid but hey sleep is important! (any one else go through that?)
He is really stressed out as well, having trouble concentrating at work and our sex life is awful. This is a really really hard thing to go though.
I've bought us a juicer trying to get some extra vitamins in us.. but anyways.
Please someone, anyone out there going through this?
*sighs*
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