Yes Bloggervenus, I think we all need to get over the fear that we have of change, etc. We need to face things head on......unfortunately its not so easy, is it? Sounds good, but doing it is another thing.
You are definately not the only one out there, I'm sure other people have the same issues as we both do. Now, would you have different advice for me now that you know more details??

LOL.....I think thats what is difficult about the posts.....if we put every detail we would have a novel and no one would read them.....so we just add on as we go.
You know, there is always someone out there for everyone......another fear.....what if you don't take the risk and never know what love really is....you will really be missing out....